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Hi ,
It literally blind-sighted me after we spent the weekend together and got intimate for the first time and he told me it was the best night of his life! And even went as far as to say, "what are you doing to me Lucy, this is like being in a teen romance movie" - that's how I made him feel.
When he found out I had a date coming up he did not like it at all and asked me to be exclusive with him over the phone. Mind you we hadn't even met for a first date yet, we had been talking on the phone for over a month and had video chatted. But I liked him so much that after talking about wanting the same things I agreed and canceled my other date.
I met him for the first time that week instead and it was amazing. We had incredible chemistry and a lot of attraction which made it feel real finally. But then he would be quiet a lot and I am not used to being in a relationship with a man that never wants to talk on the phone that much, doesn't answer my calls or doesn't talk to me every day and now I closed off all my other options to be with him.
I even told him, I would be much more relaxed if I was still seeing other men if he needed more time. I wanted to be calm but it was hard since I'm now only seeing him, but he's not that communicative and not that available. I sensed when I leaned back he would eventually come around but even
setting up dates with him was so casual to the point that he didn't follow up until the day of and would keep me hanging for hours on what time we would actually even meet.
So it started driving me crazy. I felt disrespected because it was also my time and if I said anything he would say I was being difficult. I finally started questioning him if he was seeing other people and he just had it and said he was done. That I didn't trust him. I feel
like I blew it. I tried to talk to him one last time to at least tell him I was sorry I didn't trust him and let my insecurities get the best of me and that I would like to fix this and he just kept saying he was done and that he didn't think he could meet my demands or that he was the right person for me.
So I'm trying to reread your book now and get back into a more balanced state of mind. But I am hurting a lot. I really didn't want to mess this up and now I don't know if there is anything I can do to fix it. He went from acting so patient and running after me when he knew I had other guys even when my
freakouts were worse and said some bad things to him, to him running for the hills when all my energy was finally focused on him and me telling him I was all in. Just a massive switch in him.
He's in social work and has always acted very calm and compassionate and that's why I wasn't expecting this massive shut down and sudden ending on his side. I also opened up to him about my past and some family trauma and even though he said it wasn't too much, I wonder if it did
freak him out because he said he didn't want to add more stress to my life and be the cause of me getting triggered so much.
Doesn't this scenario sound familiar to you, ? Haven't you made the same mistakes she did thinking that by being overly nice
and available you can secure the man you like the most?
I told her that her case is a classic example of over investment and over eagerness and SHE HAS NO BUSINESS TO BE EXCLUSIVE WITH HIM. The fact that she is now of course puts her in the one down position that will never inspire him to step up and only pushes him further and further away. And I recommend her to listen to these classes:
How To Be High Value And Easy To Lose (the one class that makes you mesmerizing to a man the minute you shift internally and you will during and after listening to this powerful class, hence it's why this hit class is extremely popular among my
clients)
The Seven Principles That Put Him Under Your Spell (the one class that reveals the secret on how men find you extremely magnetic that they will eat out the palm of your hand and worship the ground you walk on because you're so magnificently different to the rest of female population -and ONLY Kat can
teach you this)
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The reason Katarina Phang is so different to other coaches is in the subtlety and counter intuitive nature of her teachings. It requires expansion of consciousness to be able to see and implement
what she teaches so this is why even when Lucy has been with me for a while and also in my inner work program, she didn't get it right away that the principles that I teach that she conveniently "forgot" when she zeroed in the one guy who makes her weak in the knees would have spared her from this predicament in the fist place.
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One of the things that I teach that is hard to copy is the principle that I call Love Jiujitsu of the Highest Form. It basically teaches you to always take the path of least resistance. How to do so?
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"A guy I’ve been dating for about 9 months (we’re not exclusive) told me on Christmas saying that he doesn’t see a future with me because he feels we can’t have deep intellectual conversation.
As I’ve been following your teaching, I feel sad, but calm. Thanks to you, I feel I can let him go with peace. Everyone will come to your life for a reason or a season. I’ve sat with my feelings, felt my deep appreciation of our wonderful time spent together and also the lessons learned throughout our time knowing each other. I plan to lean back – not reaching out even on his birthday that will fall in the coming week.
I feel I’ve been applying your teaching – being receptive and being honey. I always focus on being present and building on emotional connection when we were together. However, we belong to a very different field of work and also we have different interests. I am in art, while he is in tech start up. His interests are on finance, politics, and technology; as for me I am interested in psychology and history.
I don’t have much knowledge on his areas of interests, and vice versa. When we spend time together, we’d go on nature walk, go to restaurant, cook a meal together, or watch movies at home- in which I feel we’d bond and enjoy each other company.
Sex is really great between us, there’s no question about it, in which he also admits himself that I am definitely 8 out of 10 – even with him being a much more experienced person than me (he’s also 12 years older: I am 29 and he is 41). However he said he wants a relationship and conversation with someone that he feels can ‘stimulate’ him intellectually. And he couldn’t find that in me, even after 9 months of
dating.
So my question is: Is it a lost cause to date someone whose interests are different than you? I’ve learned so much about the importance of building emotional connection in a romantic relationship, but not about intellectual aspect of it.
I’ve always known that him and I have different interests. For me I always appreciate things I could learn from him. When he talks about things he is passionate about, I try to be curious. I don’t try to act like I know- because I don’t. I am receptive of what he’s teaching me about things he’s passionate about and also his projects/field of works. I never commented and talked him down about it.
What caught me off guard was he’s been consistent since the day we met and he pursued me, he always texted me first everyday – at least once a day. He’s always very thoughtful and pays attention to our conversation. He initiates us meeting up – we’ve been meeting twice a week for the past 2 months.
He’ll pick up (observe) things that I like and don’t like even without me mentioning to him about them directly. He’s a very observant person and have been very thoughtful with me. I thought everything was going great, till he said that last night. How would you handle this situation, Kat? I am learning to be better in dating, and about feminine-masculine polarity. What could I have done differently in this
case?
Additional info: He spent the night at my place last night, after us having that conversation. We just slept next to each other (no sex, but he hugged me as we slept), but in the morning he left without having breakfast together (usually we'd also have breakfast together before he leaves). Before he left, we hugged and he said "thank you for everything" to me.
I didn't text him all day (I never did anyway bc I never needed to. He always initiated). At night he texted me: I hope what I said made a bit of sense. I slept well, as always. (Referring to when he slept over for the "last time" at my place) Hope you had a nice day.
Would love to hear your opinion, and also answer to my question. Thank you very much in advance, Kat! "
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Most coaches give you a black and white approach to your dilemma because they are on the same level of awareness as you are. They have no inner knowledge on perceptions and projections. These two things are very subtle and commonly unseen by most coaches.
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