Happy new year!! How have the first 16 days of 2023 been treating
you, lovely? Today I want to talk about the art of detachment and why it's such an important skill to cultivate for any woman to rise up to
Feminine Magnetism mastery.
My client Alissa who was doing
Journey Inward which is a part of Feminine Magnetism group coaching recounted this experience a while back:
The EUM came back again yesterday with mixed messages. He broke up with me Friday and I was a total Kat girl. I just calmly
said “I understand” when he broke up with me. He went to a family wedding this weekend.
The PK (pre-kat) me would have been anxious because we had been looking forward to it for so long. Instead, I listened to the classes and paid attention to my
feelings. Yesterday, he sent me a photo of himself with his niece… it was her wedding. And he said some nice things about his family being super upset about him and his behavior and about him breaking up with me. He said he wimped out and told them it was just a break.
I mirrored him, was honey, etc.
He called me, we had a pleasant chat, he said nothing about getting back together, but acted as if nothing had happened. He sounded so happy to hear from me. I mirrored that and acted
happy to hear from him as well. Then he asked me if he could call me later that night. I said yes, I’d like that.
Today, just now, he texted me
and said “I only sent you photos yesterday. I wasn’t trying to draw you back in.”
Then several minutes later… “However, can I ask about your day?” (he
texted back). Too funny!
Today after Class #3…. I really felt that I was no longer sure I wanted him back or that our relationship (if we would even get back together) truly serves me or is in my best interest. I thought about what I want, and whether he is who I really want or is it just an
illusion?
I’m sitting in those feelings and letting that gel with me for a long while.
I don’t have to make a decision.
I know he’ll come back. They always do.
Knowing me, I’ll be totally over him and won’t want him anymore.
Thank you Kat. I love this program!!
For the ladies who need
closure and haven’t spoken to their EUMs to get it, I did this and it works so well:
I wrote my EUM’s name on a square of toilet paper. I had my own private ceremony in the bathroom, thanking God for our good times and the lessons our relationship taught me, and the things he taught me I don’t want. I put the
toilet paper square in the commode and watched the ink run/dissolve in the water, and then I flushed it. I felt a sense of release.
The next day, my first thought was of him in the sewer, where the relationship belonged. Gone.
If you share this, please keep my name anonymous.
"And just as I knew…. he did come back.
By the time he did I was at Class #5 of Journey Inward. I didn’t care if he stayed or went and was tired of
his brooding. He sent me a text that said... “I am going to wean myself from texting you ”
Obviously he was having trouble pulling away from me and that led to a phone call in which... I didn’t even have to ask him that. He just told me…. he said his 3 animals follow him and let him lead, but I don’t and that frustrates him.
I realized he had not yet trusted my shift and was taking baby steps back into the relationship because he doesn’t trust I’ll let him lead.
He’s a definite Alpha Male — his job is a badass job that requires all the toughness of a man and he has zero time to take a back seat to anyone. I’ve decided I do want him, but only if I’m happy in this and I’ll stay as long as I’m happy and will leave when I’m not.
Thank you for the insight!!! You are a genius!!
Here's the timeline of how fast my methods work. Alissa found me and got
my ebook with coaching on July 18. She got him back 10 days after they first broke up and she practiced what
the ebook teaches but she leaned forward again and "called him on his BS"
so they broke up again for the 2nd time.
On Aug 26, she signed up for
Journey Inward as advised. On Aug 28 she sent me the email above and began to see results at class #3.
He's back again on Sept 5.
Journey Inward is the sorcery any woman needs in a breakup situation. This program has helped so many women amend their broken relationships and rekindle the romance and connection with their beloved exes.
This is the one program on the market that has been proven time and again as the magic pill to get an ex back
because it zeroes in the roots of the problems: your own neuroses and ignorance on
masculine/feminine dynamics.
It's 2 + 2 =
4.
Class #3 is on Be The Observer Of The Mind and Understand Yourself.
This profound subject teaches you what the mind is and how it becomes the source of all your problems in life. And to see things clearly first of all you have to
detach from the ego which means to detach from the hyperactive mind. To transcend it so you can observe the movement of your own ego in a dispassionate and objective fashion.
Needless to say this skill is very elusive to most people but the one that is worth mastering. Because when you are detached from the ego/mind you will stop over reacting to every little challenge you perceive that is the source of
toxicity and rockiness in your
relationship.
And this is the brief why Journey Inward is such a healing powerful program that have reunited many exes in an
improved and healthier relationship. Respond to this email
if you want to talk to me about this program and how it can improve your relationship, bring your ex back and just in short benefit you in every aspect of your life.
And if you are interested in a new cycle of my ultimate
Feminine Magnetism Group coaching that is a hybrid between live coaching and pre-recording audio from the latest cycle and would like to know more what this program is all about and how it different from any program on the market sign up for the
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The second subject I want to discuss with you, is that I'm offering the last round to be my trained coach if you are interested in what I do for a living that I will soon have to leave behind to attend to my new role in the Golden Age as the Divine Mother of Humanity:
Follow My Process Coach Certification Program.
Jacqui who just signed up for the program dreams about opening a "Goddess Center" where she lives in Laguna Beach (and it's so right up my alley cause I love combining enlightenment and lifestyle into one mesmerizing venture). We're entering an era of peace and prosperity when we're done with the apocalypse and as I will be a social media
sensation in the very near future, there is no one else to guide and promote you into the new venture but Katarina Phang, The Man Whisperer and the Last Resort/ The Chosen One /Love Guru.
You'll also be automatically enrolled in my ongoing
Midas Touch, Exploration of Your Genius Zone and so far there are about 30 hours of material you will need to digest upon signing up. And we're going to have another live class in the next couple of weeks: How to Reach Balance Between Leading With Your Feminine Energy and Standing Up For Yourself In The Work Place. You simply don't want to miss my insights on this matter.
You'll find this journey so EXHILARATING like nothing else you ever signed
up for. As you become emptier and emptier inside, the whole world surrenders on your feet.
And only one person in the niche can teach you that. One person who breathes
feminine energy it's no longer a concept to her.
So the Coach Certification Program will be taught in that mode of total
surrender that will also be contagious to the way you see and live your life. It's called Follow My Process because it entails exactly that. I'm thriving on not knowing. I surrender to the process that life brings in my path. I have let go any sense of control because control is an illusion.
You will follow my evolution the entire year...and beyond as you are watching your own...very
closely and mindfully.
If you have been following me for a while and have seen results in your own personal life and you're interested in this program, please respond to this email.
As you progress with this program at some point you can start by helping me in the growing fan subscriptions. Our membership will no
doubt to grow to hundreds and thousands in months/years to come so there is plenty opportunity to intern and make some money even in the beginning based on your merit.
One of our last participants Veronica who is now a coach herself and who was one of my 60 engagements in 2018 signed up for the program because she felt she's aligned with the
kind of lifestyle I live and teach: "Hi Katarina,
I would like to thank you for the wonderful weekend at your palace. I am the girl who is the early age Montessori teacher : ) The
retreat was wonderful and the connections that I made were the warmest, very meaningful and sometimes literary out of this world, that deeply touched my soul. It gave me a new level of surrender and being in the flow.
It also got me thinking about doing your coaching program. Thanks to your teachings my imaginary long-distance, rebound and mostly imaginary situationship (all classic
no-no’s that you warn about in your last article) turned into something wonderful that I thought I had lost long ago and would never have again. It’s been a year since discovering your programs and look at me now - I am peaceful, happy and struggle-free 99% of the time. I was your success story last year and feel like I am neuroses-free enough to pass your knowledge and especially make it available for women in Russia in their native language. I now reside in Portland, Oregon. The
drop your mind philosophy is something that I have internalized and made a part of my personality. I would never have thought that the state of mind and feeling that I am now in, is even attainable! I had never had such clear thinking before coming across your teachings, which ironically comes from dropping the mind!
With indefinite gratitude,
Veronica"