Hi ,
Heartbroken and confused, I was angry and reactive at first, but then very quickly I realized how similar the
feeling was to when my marriage had ended.
At first my boyfriend didn’t tell me why he suddenly felt differently. He regretted breaking up with me and asked for an open relationship, as eventually he admitted he had reconnected with an ex and felt he had unfinished business. He didn’t want to lose me but was unwillingly not to explore things with his ex. He said he loved me, didn’t love her, but needed to spend time with her. He promised that I was still the person he wanted to spend his life with.
He was saying what I thought I wanted to hear : that he loved me most. But his actions were showing that his
energy and attention were elsewhere.
In my heartbreak I have been listening to all of Kat’s modules that are included in the coaching program. They are truly life changing. I also have access to the fan subscriptions because
she gave me access since I had already purchased one of the modules previously. I wake up in the morning listening to Kat, I go to sleep listening to Kat, and I am learning to put the focus and energy on me. I am less tired because I am doing less, thinking less. I feel like so much of the burdens I have carried around are being left behind. I am learning to live as an empty vessel. I realize now that all of this journey in intimacy is really about the spiritual journey we are all on. The universe gave me this experience with my ex as an important lesson to lead me to Kat so that I could learn from her.
Being in her constant presence is like being in the presence of the divine feminine mother I never knew existed, and have been so cut off from. Now I am healing the divine feminine within me; I am surrendering to being a woman. I am
becoming receptive and my energy is shifting. My life is being transformed, and it’s only been one week in the coaching. I honestly don’t know who I will be at the end of this coaching program. But I know that the divine led me to this program - in fact I believe the divine masculine led me here. And instead of fighting it, I have accepted and surrendered and am now experiencing the deepest healing of my life. Yes, I still miss my ex. But the men who have showed up in my rotation are kind, and generous, and present. I am learning to lean back with them, I will never repeat the mistakes I made in my marriage and relationship where I was so masculine, demanding, and emasculating. I trust that in time the right man will show up in my life that matches my new energy and will love me in all the best of ways. I know the divine masculine has someone for me, and I can trust that, and by
work is just to wait with radiance, patience and joy to receive.Marisa's case is not unique, many women experience their boyfriends
all of a sudden have a longing for their exes as the relationship goes deeper with them. It is because they thought they were over their exes and when
faced with the reality that they might not be able to undo the deepening of their new relationship and walked back on the path that could have been with their past loves they become torn.
And the support you get will not only during the monthly calls but also Monday to Friday in Voxer.
Here's an example of a nugget I drop for her about feeling vengeful that she experiences after her breakup (who won't be after being dumped, right?) and expect more of these in the days and weeks to come.
So let me know if you want to take advantage of this very generous coaching not available anywhere in the industry by anyone else. And you can also access the fan subscriptions and get reconditioned with the 290 classes you can access as program replacement if you have taken some of the modules. This tradeoff is really PRICELESS, it's worth so much more than the dollar value attached to it.
I'll show up again in
the fan subscriptions and
monthly membership on Thursday at 2 pm EST so list your questions now. Piggy backing on the topic of the newsletter our
lady Vanessa in the monthly membership whose boyfriend broke up with her a few months ago now came with this update and you certainly would want to know my answer and advice to her dilemma:
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So my favourite rotation guy found out that his ex (he had been engaged to her, they were together 3 years, and now have been broken up for 6 months) had a new boyfriend, and he's super upset about it and has been blowing hot and cold with me ever since he found out, so I added another new guy to
my rotation... he's super dreamy, and amazing in bed, but 14 yrs younger than me... my ex found out (noticed cans by my bed), and he tried to have a talk with me, where he told me he still wanted to sleep with me, and spend time with me, but didn't want/just couldn't label it.... I didn't say yes or no... I don't want to be tethered while he isn't committed. He's actually kind of acting insecure now though and trying to book more time with me... which is kind of
funny... I spent time with the original rotation guy this weekend, he invited me. He still acted kind of aloof the first day... then I thought to check my energy and realized I was not in high vibration, I realized I felt like... I didn't deserve him, I was putting him on a pedestal and thinking he was too good for me somehow and I was feeling anxious and judging myself, my every move. I managed to shift
it a bit the second day and we had a fun time, he visibly relaxed. I found myself feeling anxious still on the way home, especially because I chatted to a non enlightened friend on the drive home, and she stressed me right out, told me he was a manipulative player and I was going to get hurt (she's single... and she's never even met this guy). I then listened to your interview with Jacqui to calm myself down and her observation of you and the takeout boxes really resonated for me with this situation... I guess I'm still learning a lot in this "training ground." I guess I maybe need some reassurances, some mind shift/vibe
shift... I need to not want this guy so bad, and I think maybe information on dating a rebound and when he blows hot and cold?
I'm having fun with all 3 guys... although this one is (unfortunately) my favourite, lol, and yet at the same time, I'm questioning myself why, because at this point he doesn't seem like he will give me the commitment I want either....
Thanks Kat!"
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