Hi ,
I am an observer of a natural process which means I rarely jump to conclusion about anything but rather let's see how things unfold. You will know what is what along the say when signals are being given to you thanks to divine timing.
So sometimes I don't give a lot of premeditations on what I need to do, I just jump into it and get curious of where the process is going to
get me and what kind of journey I will experience.
For example, two days after Freckles our fur baby passed (unexpectedly two videos of her
here and
here I posted went viral something I never experienced before), I applied to be a foster parent with
Southern California Pitbull Rescue. I have always
wanted to do it but Freckles was dog aggressive and because of that we adopted her from her previous home as she didn't get along with the other dogs.
And honestly, other than passion for this breed I was also partly driven by the void after losing her that made me visit the website and filled in the foster application thinking that the process would be slow enough for us to mourn while waiting for our first foster baby.
But I was wrong, the next day I got an email from the owner
of the rescue offering a dog for us to foster. That female dog didn't fall through as she was listed for adoption fast but we were offered another, a boy approximately 2 years old or younger based on his inexperience and puppy behavior, who was on the euthanasia list.
The next thing we knew he was picked from the shelter and
dropped at our
home 2 days later and a day earlier than scheduled.
Just 5 days after Freckles passed and our heart still mourning the loss...
We named the dog Tucker Wallace and
he was so marvelously sweet, funny and
affectionate.
I really didn't know what to expect. While loving him is easy caring for a formerly stray dog with no training whatsoever proved to be a challenge. And we never experienced that as Freckles came "user friendly" as she was a well trained 5 years old family dog.
I found out as it was unfolding and reflected on my "not readiness" to jump all in (but I did because it was a
commitment I couldn't say no to) as I was caring for and tried to potty train him.
Fast forward, 12 days later I could say with certainty I friggin adore this baby and am glad he's in our life. The first 2 days were rough because we felt we were thrown in a situation we would rather wait a bit for.
So what we can learn from this is mourning/grieving after a loss is a necessary process and emotional
unavailability is a common aftermath after such situation. It could be a loss of a loved one or a relationship/marriage.
Mourning is like
rebounding so if you are now in a situation involving a grieving or rebounding man, please listen up...
It's not his fault he can't open up to you or a potential of a new relationship with you...just yet. It's not your fault either, nothing is wrong with you so stop being so bothered by it.
What you need to do is really to practice detachment and the skills of enjoying every interaction with any guy you date with no string attached. Let that attachment (or connection) develop naturally by not putting the carriage before the horse. The less worries you have the better his
response toward you is going to be.
I described the delicate process of rebounding in this popular class
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