"Former EUM not only came with me to shop for some holiday dresses without me asking, but he picked out a sexy red dress for me and bought them all. If that’s not goddess shopping I don’t know what is! All I can say is you never know what can happen in the span of one week. One week and one day ago I bought Kat’s ebook and read it, one day ago I bought “How to be High Value” and listened to it. My vibration is through the roof right now!!
 

My guy and I met off of an online dating site 7 months ago – we had instant connection and our dating seemed to fall into place. We never had a discussion but he initiated and planned dates, I accepted. I was reading Kat’s blog at the time so had a sense of what I needed to do to keep him around.
 

Around the 5 month mark back in September, I noticed he started acting very distant from me, calling me a ‘friend’ and acting very protective around his phone. This is when I started to become turned off to him.
 

I slowly pulled away and I broke it off with him last Sunday morning after reading your book, especially the chapter about when and how to walk away. When I made the investment I was hesitant but felt a calling from the universe to take this leap of faith. After reading, I realized I had to take care of myself first and be easy to lose. I had been too available for too long and I was ready to see other guys who wanted to step up and treat me right.
 

That Sunday evening, while I was hanging out with a rotation guy, I got an email from the ex that spilled his heart out to me, asking for a second chance. He also said in this email ‘if you haven’t moved on to some other guy…’ – it’s as if he knew I had options and wouldn’t be sitting around begging for him back. Amazing how powerful our energy and intention is.
 

I agreed to meet with him the next day to discuss things after reading his email. He was a completely broken man even after less than 36 hours without me. He told me that he had been holding back emotionally from me because of past hurts but that I am the best girlfriend and best friend he’s ever had and he trusts me. I agreed to take him back only after he answered a couple of questions about things I was concerned with. I was open to whatever answers he gave me and I didn’t interrupt him. I felt so empowered that I got to choose to take him back on my terms, and not the other way around. No damsel in distress here!
 

Let me just say that this past week has been incredible. This former EUM has been more affectionate and loving than ever – holding my hand in public, inviting me to his family home for Thanksgiving, planning trips to Hawaii for next year, even doing something new in the bedroom I had hinted at months ago but decided it was a lost cause All of this response has been on his own – all I told him in response to asking me what he could do to make me happy was ‘Love me and don’t ever let me forget it.’
 

I truly believe he is now inspired by me because I stepped up to own my high value – I listened to the High Value class on Friday and was just glowing with happiness. This weekend I told him I was going shopping and he invited himself to come along with me, bought me dresses that I liked, told me how beautiful and sexy I looked. This coming from a man who couldn’t even muster the word girlfriend even a few weeks ago!
 

I am astounded by this change but I know it’s because of the change within me – I now truly believe without a shadow of a doubt how high value I am, and I won’t accept less than what I deserve. ACCEPT OR REJECT! No more fixing! New motto for this gal.
 

So grateful for the Feminine Magnetism group for keeping me grounded and serving as a constant reminder of these teachings, which of course I wouldn’t have if I didn’t take the leap of faith to buy the book. Can’t stress this enough, it is the investment you put into yourself that will be reflected back to you!! Make the investment!"