Get Him Attached To You By Letting Him Invest In You
Published: Mon, 03/10/25
Updated: Mon, 03/10/25
Hi ,
There is a misconception about the concept of leaning back among some women who are also my clients as if it was a game to trick a man to chase a woman instead of a way of being or second nature.
Leaning back isn't:
1. Being aloof and distant. 2. Not reciprocating. 3. Being scared to text at all.
Now re. texting first, that depends on why you need to text. Is it essential (to communicate something necessary, for example where he can find you on a date) or is it to alleviate your anxiety because he's not reaching out enough? That makes a whole difference. Looking for validation from a guy in the form of leaning forward doesn't work, it has been
proven time and again by millions of women.
If you feel desperate to want to text him that is a sign right there for you to heed: he's not as invested in you and the relationship as you are in him (and the relationship) and that is a KISS OF DEATH. Instead of feeling strangulated by the "leaning back edict" as something fake, look into why you are more attracted to him and he's to you? That's the problem that millions of women face so they ended in my care.
Women who claim that have leaned back and it's not working miss these 3 salient points:
1. You can't create physical attraction in a guy so if they don't find you adequately attractive physically (and it's going to happen to every woman no matter how you look, you're not every man's cup of tea -and vice
versa- and that is fine) they won't pursue you leaning back or leaning forward. The good thing is you weed this type sooner than later compared if you do all the leaning forward and the heavy lifting (yeah they will enjoy the ride for a while till it's time to move on to a greener pasture).
Huge mistake. You can't persuade a man to fall for you by doing/giving more. That's masculine energy and will only work with feminine energy guys (if that's the type you like then more power to you).
What works is a man has to choose you first and you respond yay or nay. If yay, then be responsive and follow his lead. And over time you can work toward the cultivation of emotional attraction with him that will make you indispensable in his eyes.
2. Many women still have expectations. They still don't lean back because They do it as a strategy and of course with such
grasping mind soon enough that will translate into impatience and frustrations. Leaning back is about connecting to our deepest essence as a feminine energy creature. Patience and humility is what leaning back is. That's what attract masculine energy guys because of the principle of polarity. If you are bound by goals, that is not leaning back. That's leaning forward all over again.
Most women don't understand this process and they're bound to timelines so they take everything from surface level understanding and then blame the teachings when their expectations of timelines aren't being met. First of all you have to let go of everything, every idea and conception of "should" to be able to lean back properly on the soul
level.
This is very counter
intuitive, this class below will explain it you in such a manner that will soften you so much to become so divinely feminine.
3. Expectations come from restless mind, the mind that always evaluates, judges, compares and never happy with what it has in the moment. When you understand process and how everything happens in its own divine timing through the process your mind naturally stops the grasping and over reaching. Then leaning back becomes 2nd nature because it's the most natural state of being that doesn't take any energy to sustain.
So everything I teach is connected to everything else and you can't take it as a separate item than picking it apart. That's what assumptions and projections are. They're INACCURATE because you haven't covered the basics YET which means you need more time to process all this new information. Transformation takes ebbs and flows, and sometimes setbacks but that's the necessary process to grasp the full picture of the teachings.
So ladies, rather
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There are 3 ways you're getting into a relationship with a skewed mindset that makes it harder for him to deepen the bond with you:
Believing that relationship will save you from yourself
meaning that will solve the inherent issue of not being contented in one's own skin. Thanks to this you become so shaky when you see that your idealization of a romantic relationship creates so many upheavals when it's being met with a reality that is not exactly as the
expectations.
Being in love with the idea of a man: his potentiality instead of what you are seeing moment to moment and adjust to it.
Jealousy and possessiveness are a common factor that creates so much rockiness in the relating. A lot of women
believe in the rigidity of the idea of loyalty because they don't really believe in their own desirability.
Sounds familiar? In that case I also recommend another excellent resource to handle your breakup situation from my trained Coach Aruna who once was also suffering from extreme jealousy that caused 2 breakups and who is now happily married to that same former ex: How To Go Through A Breakup and Get Him Back If That's What You Want.
Now suffice it to say that whatever your situation is my teachings will solve it and I am the TOP COACH in the world in the expertise of reuniting exes, no doubt about it. This is why you don't
mix my advice with anyone else's. Katarina Phang is the Rain Maker, beyond the shadow of a doubt. She lives a miraculous life herself and she has a Midas Touch as she turns the impossible POSSIBLE with her Divine Presence and Wisdom.
Respond to this email with cc to orpheus218@gmail.com if you need more guidance on how I can help you out of your most difficult romantic predicaments. I'm sure whatever your situation is I can help simplify it for you with my 20/20 vision.
Love,
Katarina
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