Abigail
shared in the FB group (if you are not there, you're missing out of the free help there)
of her plight of being dumped by her younger boyfriend because she came clean about lying about her age: I posted a few days ago telling the story of how I lied about my age to my boyfriend. I am actually 35 and he is 27, but for the past 1.5 years I let him believe I was only 3 years older than
him. I wrote a 2 part post if you want to find them.
Thank you all for commenting. I read every single comment. I am sorry I didn’t not reply, but the past few days have been absolutely torture waiting for him to take his space and decide if he wants this relationship after I told him the truth.
He called me yesterday and broke up with me. He was crying as he told me that the days he took space from me were some of the hardest days he has dealt with, but due to our age difference of 8 years he thinks we need to break up.
He said that I would already be in my 40s by the time he is in his early 30s and I would already be
experiencing health problems and less likely to want to travel with him.
He said that he wanted to marry me and start a life with me when he thought I was 30, but since I’m actually 35, he feels rushed now to get married and have kids and he is not ready for that yet. He wants someone closer to his age that they can go through life at the same stages. He said he honestly felt he would grow to resent me
if he stayed in this relationship and had to rush his life plans like marriage and kids.
He said he would be “a little bit ashamed” of my age if we moved into a place and people asked how old we were and they found out I was that much older than him.
He said through tears that he wanted to remain friends. He
was sobbing towards the end of the call. I was crying too. I tried to fight it at first but eventually told him thanks for the memories and I wish you the best of luck and hung up. He told me I could call him any time I need to talk. He was pretty adamant about not losing me from his life as a friend.
Please help me. This is the first day without him, no good morning texts or calls. I feel so crushed.
Can’t stop crying."
A lot of women are being discouraged by the belief that men, even older ones, are only interested in women below 30 years old. They believe women's worth expire when they enter their 30's which is a total bullcrap lie!!!
If you've been haunted by this, let me tell you, you deserve the kind of men you attract or attracted to as they fit your
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Mature women who are secure in themselves won't entertain a man who think they are less than just because they're no longer within the age bracket of what's considered desirable in a woman.
Because of this insecurity some women lie on their dating profile about their age. And in Abigail's case only after 1.5 years in relationship she admitted that she was 5 years older than she told him she was.
It's not a major mistake in my opinion, they shared many things in common and had a great relationship. The problem is he's
a new adult himself, having been only 9 years out of his minimum age of consent. He is inexperienced and on top of that he's attached to his cultural values and tradition. When I was his age I told myself that I would only date a guy with 6 years age difference at the most as well (and I am a woman). So this new development poses a real challenge to him as his parents -especially his mom- already didn't really approve of her thanks to her nationality.
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