Work On Your Energy With My Guidance Cause He Responds To It
Published: Thu, 05/08/25
Updated: Thu, 05/08/25
Hi ,
Here's why I love this job because literally the past 14 years there is no day pass without a life being changed. Here's a very well-written email from a client (I'm so blessed my unsolicited testimonials are mostly written in heartfelt details, something I've never seen in the
industry before):
"Katarina,
When am I? I feel like time does not mean to me what it once did.
Anxiety once was a dirty word. It was the burden I carried in my heart; shoulders slumped,
crying in literal darkness in a house I shared with a man in a 5-year “situationship” that seemed to only be made of moments of disappointment—mostly in myself.
I am asthmatic and it seemed I lost my breath more in times of self-inflicted emotional stress than during physical ones. I felt
the anxiety of pining for someone who said he loved me; the evidence of which I could never find. I sat in an emergency room hospital bed crying and simultaneously rationalizing the fact that my partner had left me there alone so he could go and sleep off a night of drinking. I
spent many years accepting when I should have been rejecting.
This was one of many moments in 5 years I fought what my body already knew. That I didn’t trust myself. That I resisted what my heart was telling me. That my body was literally fighting to show me. This was my rock-bottom. Though it has different colors, shapes, and sounds from what others may call their lowest point in life, to-date, it certainly is mine.
Despite this, I’m grateful that I went
through it, that I was given the gift of the first-hand experience. I know wholeheartedly what neglect feels like—and the secret that people rarely admit is it had little, if anything at all, to do with how he treated me. It had everything to do with how I treated myself. How liberating is it to write this shamelessly, in fact, with a smile on my face—not because of egoism, but because of self-awareness? That was then, and this is now.
That was almost 9 months ago and now, I don’t recognize myself.
I watch my thoughts now like a comedy central roast. How funny, depraved and outlandish they can be? If there’s a doomsday scenario of the most unlikely and extreme possibility, I’ve thought
of it. Before, I believed these things would somehow come true. And by self-fulfilling prophecy alone, oftentimes they did. Now, I laugh at how ridiculous it is and then moments later catch myself rationalizing the initial thought—which is still of the mind…the ego is so sneaky. Thoughts are useless, or rather; they are harmful because they are more likely to push you into peril in your everyday life than save you.
In 5 years of thinking and strategizing whether I should lose my virginity to a man who may or may not marry me – I got nowhere. That relationship has been dead and buried for a long time. In the past 6 months, I have been enjoying the company of a man who has shown me more love than I received in 10 times that
amount of time. We met in October. Less than 4 weeks later, I met his brother and niece, 3 months later he introduced me to his entire family, 5 months later he met my entire family (of his own free will and interest). We recently exchanged ILY’s and this week marks 6 months together—something he’s reminded me of a couple times. In 2 weeks, I’m going on vacation with his entire extended family.
When I tell my girlfriends about him, they say, wow he’s the exception to a man’s rule
of timelines. And he is amazing, but what they don’t realize is that I’ve become the exceptional one. It’s my attitude that’s different. It’s relating to a man for the sake of genuinely getting to know who he is and seeing how we fit together. That’s it. I just want to know who he is and
see if he just wants to get to know who I am too. And that’s all we’ve been doing. I am cured of golden pussy syndrome because it doesn’t matter at ALLLLLLLLLLLL.
I have never asked him to be on a timeline or asked where this is going. I have never asked him to treat me a certain way. I have never asked him to give me more time, more effort, more energy, more words, more anything. I have never withheld my affection or sex because he had not verbally called me his girlfriend or asked for exclusivity. I recall a conversation early on when he said, alluding to my lack of frequent texting, “oh my last girlfriend used to send the best text messages to me all the time.”
I almost reacted. I could feel the green jealousy rising, then sat back and decided to trust in my desirability and in the process. He wasn’t looking at me after he said that and I chuckled and looked around the room and in my head, I said: “but where is she, though…she’s not here…”
I simply rotated until I felt it was no longer necessary or even feasible, he monopolized my time – I actually had to cancel a few potential/play by ear dates because he’d be like “what are we doing tomorrow?” And ironically the other day in passing he made a joke that “I finally have a girlfriend I want to take to my high school
reunion and you won’t even be around.”
Whaaaaaaat? Hahaha. My ex NEVER called me his girlfriend out loud. EVER.
How is that all possible? You and what I have learned on this journey. That’s why. You showed me how to be the truest version of myself; one that can simply surrender. I’m no longer exhausted in doing and thinking. Here’s the best part of my life. That’s it. It’s MY LIFE.
I am PLAN A – as my mom likes to say. If someone wants to
come in and create a PLAN B with me, I’m in! If not, I’M STILL PLAN A. Trust me when I say this as much as I love this man, I KNOW that there is an abundance of possibilities for bonding with great men out there who will genuinely want to build a relationship with me. That’s no longer an idealized
fantasy—it’s reality. My dance card is still full despite being claimed. There are men who were genuinely disappointed someone else acted faster than they did so I am actually easy to lose. I have never been able to say that in my life.
The truth is that while I am more confident, I still see thoughts that speak to fear, that show my shadows as I learned in Journey Inward. If things truly don’t work out, I will be disappointed. We have shared some of the best moments together and losing the possibility of a future with him would be heartbreaking. Also, there are still times when despite my awareness, I still feel anxiety when I set expectations and they’re not met
(whether it’s frequency in contact or spending time daydreaming of a wonderful interaction one weekend that’s not repeated the next weekend).
The difference between then and now is that I would have thought this difference in interactions to be a symptom of his feigning interest in me whereas now I see it has nothing to do with me. His life changes moment to moment too and if he’s struggling with something at work or with family or friends, he will be different too. And
that’s OK. I feel blessed for the gift of awareness so much so that I welcome the test of patience.
My aha moment came rushing over me like a calming shower and at this moment so much pressure, tension, anxiety, thoughts disappeared. I always hoped after that moment that I would remain in an awakened state. It’s so peaceful and unassuming. But that’s not reality. Certainty is still something I would love to control LOL.
Uncertainty was once my arch
nemesis. Now, it’s a frien-emy or competi-mate. Haha. I see it, and I’m like, which one of us can hold out longer? I’ll admit, sometimes she wins, but that’s life. I feel raw and vulnerable. Anything can happen and much of it has been delightfully unpredictable."
I don’t like to count my chickens before they hatch, so I’ve been hesitant about sending you this email in case things don’t continue to blossom, but I have to give credit where credit is due. Also, I recognize that
being vulnerable still evokes thoughts of fear like it does many. But believe me when I say I would have paid for your classes as a full 3-credit semester if I could in college. I’ve certainly learned more that has deeply impacted my life than I did in Psychology 101
or General Chemistry.
Also, I realized, I am a goddess and the man who wants to hold my hand in life is already here. He may be holding my hand today or he may be holding it tomorrow, but my mindset is so different now that I know he already exists. I don’t wallow in self-pity or doomsday outcomes even if they pass through me from time to time. I’ll surrender to the universal inevitability of it all and just be. When am I? I am now and that’s finally enough for
me.
Thank you, Katarina, for existing. Your impact on my life, my family’s life, my community, the general population is apparent and necessary. Don’t stop doing what you’re doing. So many people are counting on you…no pressure.
Xoxo," ~Michelande, Virginia
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Have you ever experienced that, ?
That's what healing is. When you are no longer ruled and controlled by your demons but rather see them as they are and embrace
them.
Remember, what you resist persists and what you embrace dissolves.
Who can teach you this ultimate self-mastery
but the one who has already conquered herself? The one who has seen very clearly the ego movement within herself? A healer is a whole being that reflects back every imbalance of people around her so they can correct themselves.
That is my role and I am here to divinely guide you throughout the realization of your true self.
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There are 3 ways you're getting into a relationship with a skewed mindset that makes it harder for him to deepen the bond with you:
Believing that relationship will save you from yourself meaning that will solve the inherent issue of not being contented in one's own skin. Thanks to this you become so shaky when you see that your idealization of a romantic relationship creates so many upheavals when it's
being met with a reality that is not exactly as the expectations.
Being in love with the idea of a man: his potentiality instead of what you are seeing moment to moment and adjust to it.
Jealousy and possessiveness are a common factor that creates so much rockiness in the relating. A lot of women believe in the rigidity of the idea of loyalty because they don't really believe in their own desirability.
Sounds familiar? In that case I also recommend
another excellent resource to handle your breakup situation from my trained Coach Aruna who once was also suffering from extreme jealousy that caused 2 breakups and who is now happily married to that same former ex: How To Go Through A Breakup and Get Him Back If That's What You Want.
Now suffice it to say that whatever your situation is my teachings will solve it and I am the TOP COACH in the world in the expertise of reuniting exes, no doubt about it. This is why you don't mix my advice with anyone else's. Katarina Phang is the Rain Maker, beyond the shadow of a doubt.
She
lives a miraculous life herself
and she has
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Midas Touch
as she turns the impossible POSSIBLE with
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Divine Presence and Wisdom
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to this email with cc to orpheus218@gmail.com if you need more guidance on how I can help you out of your most difficult romantic predicaments. I'm sure whatever your situation is I can help simplify it for you with my 20/20 vision.
Love,
Katarina
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