The response to the 50% sale on my individual classes has been great, thank you for your interest and love letters telling me how my programs and classes have changed the trajectory of your relationships
in such a profound way.
The myriads of problems many of you face in relationship is simply because you don't know how to relax and surrender in the journey. You have so many unanswered
questions in your head you feel need answers right at this very second.
You constantly project your doubts, anticipation, expectations, judgments and comparisons in your head and he often feels cornered and thrown off by your energy.
Take for example a challenge from Samira who's taking advantage of the 50% sale as she's been seeing major results having immersed herself in my sacred teachings:
"My
problems are my insecurities and betrayal trauma. I keep worrying that he’ll meet someone younger, prettier… esp as I age. His last fiancé was 24! But she was crazy. His problem with women is they try to claim him, stalk him, get upset/ demanding…
so I see why a Kat girl is a big change for him. He’s been surprised with me - he’s said that my responses were what endeared me to him. (I’ve also been told this by guys who fell for me before him, since Kat.)
I feel like this is too good to be true. I’m afraid to let myself trust it. He’s the kind that could always get the best girl, and I often feel like he’s out of my league. I’m a poor 45 yo woman with 4 kids. He’s high-status, rich and handsome. (We both grew up middle class and he admires me too.) He could be with anyone. Idk how to shake this fear that he’ll cheat or leave me; or that he has so much temptation, with famous, beautiful young women hitting on him. I’m afraid of becoming the “steady, reliable, good wife” while he cheats. Like in my marriage. Or that he’ll see me without makeup and lose attraction. He always builds me up and says he’s
luckier than me, but I feel like the one-down.
Also, there are relationship issues like we don’t talk/share much. His lifestyle demands and stress are often too much for him, and he says I can help him: “Just hold me, limited talking, a lot of hair stroking”. I don’t want to bring up problems and cause him more stress. I’ve been a “perfect girlfriend” - because I stayed quiet and would rotate and downgrade as needed. (Like your Talking Less class!) But Idk if this level of closeness is enough for me in a committed relationship, with no rotation. I hardly ever bring up my concerns and needs, just a few times - a quick mention in a good way.
The Kat way is working with him as with other men! Sooo many times, I stopped myself from bringing up the talk and problems. If I did, he wouldn’t have asked for the talk himself. Now that it’s working, how
do I transition into the next phase of the relationship? In a committed relationship, should I be less leaned back, take more initiative as a team mate? E.g: checking on him to show I care after his mom’s death, since he sounds tired and depressed." She's feeling insecure often for no valid reason, it's the leftover of being cheated on from her past relationship. So I suggest these 2 classes The Seven Principles That Put Him Under Your Spell and Seven Conditions of How Men Fall In Love
If you are under the same condition, these 2 classes will boost your self-confidence and magnetize him further because men find women who are secure in their own skin mighty attractive and seductive.
Men fall for you based on how you make him feel and everything that I teach will make any man who is worth your salt feel safe and intrigued at the same time so they continue to step up their game to melt your heart, thus as they're falling for you they'll feel more and more invested in you so your worries of him being swayed by other women are really
baseless.
This balance is hard to fathom for most women and only 1 coach can teach that with utmost illumination.
