The number one question that we often have in trying to find our soul mate is how to attract the man/woman we're attracted to. I have one poignant thought on that: you can't do anything to attract anyone, it's either they're attracted to you or they're not.

Attraction is largely unconscious. It's embedded in our genetical codes. Some experts say it's a combination of pheromones, our inherent attraction to our mother/father, evolutionary reasons and chemical cocktails. It's not…