If you're upset and miserable about losing the man you love, it can be difficult to stay motivated to do anything except think about him. You might find yourself moping about wondering who he's with or what he's doing or why you weren't good enough for him or any number of things.

Each time you think these things, you end up feeling even worse about losing the love of your life and you begin thinking about ways to get him to come back to you.

Many women go…