You’re a guy.  You’re all about testosterone, the game, competition and winning. So before you learn the secrets to get your ex girlfriend back, you may need to sit down and ask yourself some tough questions. After all, why win at a game which you don’t really enjoy playing? Why win a competition only to receive a prize that you really don’t want anyhow?

Are you going after the Stanley Cup that you can proudly display in its own specially made case? Or are you going after a…