We hear it all the time that judge a man by his actions, not his words. What about if his actions are better than his words; i.e. he shows you attention, he calls and makes plans to see you yet he tells you I'm not ready for a relationship or I'm not emotionally available? It's confusing, isn't it? If you are going to base your decision on his actions, well he shows up! But his disclaimer worries you. If you are in that kind of situation, I can tell you he's not a lost…