How Insecurity And Neediness Kill Your Relationship
Published: Sat, 05/04/13
My private group which is a support group for my clients and book readers is stirring with controversy every now and then. One of the members wrote not long ago, "As I was hiding my boyfriend's birthday present under the bed, I stumbled on a shoebox containing old cards to and from his ex. I shouldn't have read them cause now I feel like my heart is breaking...I know the cards are old, but it still hurts. Should I bring this up to him or was I in the wrong for reading them?"
Here's my response:
I would say this is a case of "curiosity kills the cat" and how women are masters of creating problems when there is NONE.
You are violating his privacy so don't even bother. Is he not allowed to keep mementoes from the past? I know guys keep certain things from their past and they should be allowed to do so. Stop being a controlling insecure woman if you want to keep him attracted to you.