My private group which is a support group for my clients and book readers is stirring with controversy every now and then. One of the members wrote not long ago, "As I was hiding my boyfriend's birthday present under the bed, I stumbled on a shoebox containing old cards to and from his ex. I shouldn't have read them cause now I feel like my heart is breaking...I know the cards are old, but it still hurts. Should I bring this up to him or was I in the wrong for reading them?"