Hi Kat,

I've been going out with a guy for almost a year after meeting online. I always felt that he was maybe a bit scared of commitment as it took him ages to even refer to himself as my boyfriend. But I love spending time with him, I've never felt so comfortable with someone as I do with him and our conversation just bounces off each other.

But he recently told me, when he was quite drunk, that I should be dating other guys because he is not able to commit to me the way he…