Ok, I need some useful advise without being  judged. I am dating two men. Both of them are very successful,nice, and educated men. The guy #1 is very interested,takes me expensive dinners,concerts,events etc. We did have sex after dating about a month,and that was good. The guy#2 two is more of a challenge. Very confident,mellow, and reserved. We did go out a few times,and after we kissed,my heart started raising like crazy. He invited me over to his place "to watch movie" on this coming…