Never Chase A Man, Make Him Chase You Instead
Published: Wed, 05/29/13
Dear ,
In my line of work as a dating/relationship coach I come across time and again how women can't just sit back and relax and let guys lead the whole process of courtship as I believe nature intends us to do. Women get impatient and insecure very quickly and they don't realize how controlling, pushy and unattractive their vibe is to the guys who actually found them attractive in the beginning. A lot of them even act psychotic by practically stalking the guys with repeated texts, phone calls, unannounced visit to their houses, etc.
Does that sound familiar to yourself? Remember the last time you just couldn't help but obsessing about a guy you are so attracted to? How did it work for you?
Right, he ran for the hills and you never heard back from him (there are ways to reverse the situation if you have done all the mistakes, here's how).
Bottom line is guys don't like to be chased even if at first they really liked you. But you are so fearful that you think the only way to keep him close is by hounding him. No, men are like pigeons: when you just sit back and relax with the inviting feminine energy you are naturally gifted with, they will come and flock to eat out of your hand.
What an apt and beautiful analogy that is, right?