A client and also member of my private group wrote this in the group: "UPDATE: I was asked out on Date # 3 tonight with the guy I am dating who is a private jet pilot. I had Date # 4 last Sunday night with the first guy I'm dating (met him first offline) that lives here where I do but works out of town every week. I'm doing really well with them both. I rarely text either of them first and let them lead/ask me out and we plan the date together. It's working for me.

I also made a lot of mistakes like many women make.  Texting guys first, texting way too much, texting to get attention trying to get them to respond because I thought "they should."Asking them for more of their time instead of them asking me because I "tend" to date workaholics. In other words, I was "that woman," the emotional texter that I never meant to be. It just happened. I had anger issues with my ex-husband and ex-BF which were betrayal/abandonment issues. I've accepted and come to terms with it which is why I say I'm in a far better place now. Last fall I made a vow to myself that this year only I can make the behavioral changes I need to make for myself to be successful and have fun when dating. I can't really say I love dating because it's a lot of time/effort but I am selective with who I choose to date."

 

Wow, being courted by two guys at the same time!  Who ever thought that, right?  And who says that guys don't court anymore?  

 

When you have a few guys you like in rotation, the fun just begins. This is what's exciting about being single and you feel yourself more confident each day. And when one of them wants to claim you, part of you even wishes he wouldn't do it just yet cause you feel you aren't ready! 

 

Thats' what happened with me.  I was still seeing my emotionally unavailable guy when the guy who is my boyfriend now wanted to be exclusive with me.

 

It was hard for me to leave the excitement of being adored by different guys in the beginning.  I was just...not ready!  (ironic, isn't it?)

 

When you have arrived at this point, you are the goddess that every man wants a piece of. It can be hard...in a good way that is.  Better than pining for unavailable guys anyway, right?

 

Be that woman and retire from dead-end tedious dating that feels like a chore and transform yourself into a goddess that men court and cherish.  I teach all that in my ebook/programwhich includes lifetime membership to my sleepless private group (It will be raised to $67 soon so get it today for the incredible price of $47, a small investment that will change your life forever!)