Here is my story in a nushell....I met my EUM online and we started off with a bang...our first date was actually a weekend together. How much we connected and liked each other caught us both off guard. He was very clear he did't want a serious relationship and wanted to continue to see others and that I should feel free to do the same but we agreed to be exclusive sexually....we continued to have weekends away and everything was going wonderful until I got insecure when he went out…