Hi ,

How has your holiday shopping been going?  I haven't done mine yet!!  : 0  Though perhaps the only person I need to shop for is really just my bf.

I started two free teleclasses in the summer but it got interrupted by my new group-coaching program: Journey Inward.  I want to revive it again and it's a way for me to say thank you for your readership and support is by giving a special class this Holiday season.

So, mark your calendar:  Sunday, December 29, 2013 at 7 pm EST/4 pm PT.  And of course replay is available after the live class if you keep your subscription of this newsletter.  And feel free to email me if you want me to address your situation.

Other than that I am watching with excitement as my clients see results with the inner work they have been doing.  One of them is Marina.  She painfully let go of the guy she had been dating for four months six months ago because his High School sweetheart was back in the picture and he still had feelings for her.  She was one of my very first clients when I first ventured into this business in 2010.

She found me again and signed up for private coaching as well as two cycles in a row of Journey Inward and Leaning Back workshop.  She was so committed to doing her inner work and embracing her feminine essence.  She's a high-powered, successful, assertive and independent career woman.  She is so used to being in her masculine all her life.  

This breakup forced her to look deep inside and she has been steadfastly following my advice to let him go, let go of the anger and anxiety and lean back the entire time.  For some reason deep down I had a feeling that he would be coming back.

She had a hard time not reaching out like everyone else.  But I told her that after knowing me she knew what most women didn't when it comes to attracting men.  She's a rare woman on that virtue alone.  And I'm pretty sure like most women her ex's HS sweetheart has no clue about the principles I teach her either.  So just let him finish his journey -and let the relationship run its course because like most relationships, especially the one rebuilt on HS fantasy from some 20 or so years ago, this one will too.

Throughout the breakup period, he would email her from time to time...just wondering how she was and she always replied cordially.  No jadedness.  No questioning about his relationship.  She was just mirroring him...perfectly.

Then one day about 2 months ago she emailed me with the subject title "Your program works too well!!!" in which she included his email asking to meet her for lunch.  Then at the last minute he needed to reschedule thanks to his not-so-great financial situation leaving her somewhat anxious but she responded graciously that made him really surprised by her lack of reactiveness.  He called her "a saint" for that.  Like all my successful clients, she gets noticed as very different to most other women.

That was her apparent victory in this battle against her own demons: leaving behind her old anxious, aggressive and masculine-energy self.

Finally they reunited for their first lunch last month (yep after leaning back almost a whole month) on which time he told her that he and his HS sweetheart were still together!  But you know a happy guy in a relationship won't usually ask an ex to have lunch with him out of the blue.  I just told her not to have her expectations soar and just treat it as a part of embracing the moment whatever that is.

I knew it was a matter of waiting the other shoe to drop.  

Sure enough a week or so later he contacted her again and asked her out again.  They just had dinner last night and guess what...he told her he had broke up with her!

The other shoe has indeed dropped.

Marina will continue doing what she's been doing the last 6 months: focusing on herself and her own happiness and taking one day at a time.  And she's still dating too, mind you.  We never know what the future holds for both of them but I have my suspicion that he won't be able to resist her this time around.  I will surely keep you posted so stay subscribed.

Like I always say if you practice what I teach to a tee, you won't be single for very long.  A woman like her -and you- is hard to find.  

She mused in the ladies group: "Just got back from my dinner and we had a nice time together. I did not ask about his relationship and he told me that they had broken up recently. At that moment, all I could say that I was sorry to hear that. Then the rest of the night was just staying in the moments with him. The night ended nicely, he asked if he could see me again during my winter break. I said yes and we shall see.... For the last six months, I wasn't focusing on getting him back. I was focusing on my personal and professional lives. I learned to embrace my feminine essence and let go a lot of my "shoulds" and "expectations". Also, I learn to lean back in several areas of my life which minimized unnecessary dramas and anxieties. What I gain is an important life lesson in the past 6 months.

The whole leaning back was an amazing experience for me for the past 6 months! When we broke up I was sad and shock because we did share an amazing connection. Then I realized that I cannot hold on to him because he is/was on his journey. I have to let him go so that he can figure out his feelings. I am not going to be in someone's way to true love. During those times I did not chase, pine or call him. Seriously, this was sooooo hard for me being a very assertive and go-getter person. I shifted my anxious energy into other areas of my life and now I see significant improvements! I did let him go which was the hardest thing to do but I did it to save my own sanity. In the past, I went through several broken relationships with high anxiety and stress which was a horrible horrible place to be. After leaning back, I realized that letting go and regaining myself back has helped to find my inner calmness and feminine essence. Kat is a gem in helping us to understand this."

This is an inspiration to us all in whatever situation your love life is at the moment.  

Curious the kind of inner work Marina has been doing that has got her into this stage?  Just in time for the Holidays, I have a very special offer so you can get the programs that have transformed her so profoundly at a deeply discounted rate.  For the replays of both of my hit programs that she attended, I can give you a discount of $116 (with my ebook) or $99 (without my ebook).  You can get the detail here.  The offer is good till midnight December 31, 2013.

My method might take time for it to work but it lasts because it's not based on tactic or strategy.  It lasts because it's about healing and personal growth.  

So ladies, those are two pieces of good news for you and my Holiday gifts to you.  Again, don't miss the free teleclass.  Mark your calendar.  I will send you the detail soon.  

Here again the Holiday Special of my two life-changing programs:

The Art of Magnetizing Men Mastery Holiday Packages

And look out also for my Valentine's Day Special this February!  Talk to you again soon.

Love,

Katarina