How To Make Him Open Up With His Feelings For You

Published: Thu, 12/26/13

Happy Holidays, 

I hope you had a wonderful Christmas or whatever Holiday you celebrate with your loved ones.  If you are feeling blues, hang in there....turn your love life in the new year by becoming a new improver version of you!

I didn't grow up celebrating Christmas but it's a huge holiday for my Italian boyfriend and he'd been talking about it so much.  And this year is special for us though we celebrated Christmas Eve together last year too but we weren't a couple back then.

So my client Kristie just got married last Saturday, December 21, 2013.  Not only she got him back, she made him deeply fall in love with her and popped the question just five months after they reunited!

That's how powerful your feminine radiance is.

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Do you want your guy to open up more about his feelings?  Here's a story shared by my client Mikaila in the ladies group.  She's been seeing her EUM for almost a year and after committing to the full packages of both of my programs Journey Inward and Leaning Back Workshop (which mean she listened to every replay of every cycle and also signed up for the current cycles), she sees so much improvement in her relationship even though he still won't label the relationship (his actions though speak otherwise).

"Well ladies... It's almost 5 am here, just got back home from his place and I can't sleep without sharing with you what he told me tonight. 

We were all evening with his brother and sister and when the dvd ended he told me not to leave (it was 3 am) because he wanted to cuddle a bit... As he hugged me he said "You know I've been thinking a lot and I feel we got so used to each other." 

I looked at him, not understanding where he was going with his "speech" and he said "I mean its a good thing, we are in each other's lives, you are now a part of me!  And because of that I have to think twice before every decision I have to take and every step I make in my life... I never want to hurt you and I'm always afraid of my acts."

Here I felt he was telling me that this situation was messing with his beloved freedom so I said that I don't want him to take decisions he is not ok with just because of me but he immediately shut me up and added "I never did and never will, you deserve the best, you deserve that I only think to protect you. It's weird, we are not a couple or in love but you are a part of me, you are in my life and I don't even remember what it's like without you!" (you imagine what I was feeling in my knees !!!). 

"I'm not seeing anyone else now but even if I try, whoever is the girl and I like her, etc... you will always win, because you have everything I could dream of, no other woman can compete with you, you are the real deal... You are a ferrari !"   Hahhaa.  And then he said "I love u the way you are, you are special and I feel I'm so connected to you because I see myself in you, we are so much alike inside."  (It's true I talked about it to my therapist lady last week!) 

I was so happy to hear those words coming from him, it's really the first time he expresses his feelings so much. After that he apologized again for not taking me out more often and said this will change in February...  So I said "Wow, you're planning for Feb !" So he explained again that in January he will be all the time with his boss so he won't be very available to me but he kept on saying sorry for that.  I said it's ok then I smiled and joked "who knows maybe i will find my prince charming in January."  LOL!  So he laughed veryyy loud and said it was the funniest joke he had ever heard... 

And we cuddled a bit more and as I was leaving he stopped me at the door and told me I looked very hot tonight and that when he first saw me at the restaurant he wanted to "rape" me right there! Haha.. And that I should rest tomorrow because at night he is going to make love to me so passionately that I won't be able to look at another man ever again... Ooooh yes I like it !!  

Thanks, Katarina Phang, without your teaching I would have never heard such things from him and as he was talking it was like I was listening to your words during the leaning back class (I listened to it before going to meet him).  Thanks to you, God gave me the most beautiful gift I could ever wish for! It is so unexpected that I didn't even ask God for it: making that guy talk about his feelings...  Haha! I still think I was dreaming and it wasn't real ! He really is something, telling me all this but still repeating he is not "in love " with me, hahaahaa!  It was so funny to hear! And you know what I told him as I kissed him good night?  "Babe, close your eyes, stop living in your head, stop being anxious because you can't control those things, let it happen like it should, stop resisting the good and enjoy the moment, enjoy me now that's all you can do" and he smiled and told me I was right and that I was his only queen ... Time for him to meditate too ;).

Oh, God continues on offering me gifts for this wonderful Christmas.  I was with his friend this afternoon because we are opening our clinics together and as soon as she saw me she said "what's the deal with you? What did u do to him?  He talks about you like you are a goddess or something!!!  He is always comparing you with all the women... She is like this, she is like that!!! He keeps on telling me do like she does with me, be a good woman like her, how do you think she kept me this long?  She knows exactly how to act with me and I'm the worst I know! Learn from her. She is just great, caring, warm, sweet, relaxed, smart and she never nags, gets angry and there is no drama with her."  OMG!!!! I was shocked to hear all that!  It's like I was hearing Kat's description of a feminine energy woman!  I would never have guessed this is how he sees me!!!  Hahaha!!  I just smiled and told her I'll help her with her guys. Thanks again Katarina Phang. This day keeps on getting better! Thanks Baby Jesus for this gift!!

Thanks, ladies for your support, knowing you are always present for me is a blessing! You are the ones who inspire me!  Without you i would still be anxious and crying. You all give me the strength to become the woman he dreams of!  And he is becoming a better man too because of that !!  Please share your comments.  Hugs."

What Mikaila describes is the profound transformation she's been experiencing to become a high-value feminine woman every guy needs in his life if he is to commit to any woman.  That's the kind of response a man gives in the face of a powerful woman like her.  

Her commitment to herself pays and he's responding to the way she views herself...a high value woman...without all the jadedness that so many women fall victim to unfortunately. Jadedness doesn't work with guys.

He's still "resistant" because he's an alpha man. Alpha guys don't commit till he's 100% sure this is what he wants. His commitment is expensive cause he means it but the frog is being boiled for sure!!

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Love,

Katarina