Hi ,
Men can be very confusing, can't they? It's the blowing hot and cold and conflicting messages they send (or you perceive) and as a woman, we are pretty linear. He's been pursuing
us so we assume we are romantically connected and do what feels natural for us to do with someone we care about like calling, texting, telling him how we feel about him and asking him to spend time together or giving him gifts.
Here's what Kristin shared in the ladies group: "Before I found Katarina he "pretended" to claim me, did the "let's be exclusive." But then right after he started pulling away and that's when he started breaking plans, not showing up, not contacting me much. I started reaching out when he started pulling back, and in response he pulled back more. Once I found Kat and started the whole leaning back, things switched dramatically in about a week and a half.
Then he claimed me for real, calling me his gf.
The withdrawing almost right after we decided to be exclusive. I'm just so glad I found Kat pretty quickly and started listening to a couple of the
classes. I think it saved something that was headed the same way. I've been listening to past cycle of the Journey Inward group coaching. I finished that one and I have been re-listening to the meditations. And I've now started the first class of the Leaning Back
program.
He's backed up with actions after a rough week of him pulling back. Since I starting leaning back he's made and kept plans with me about every other day. Things are going pretty well so far.
Tonight he texted me "You're mine. Deal with it lol." I'm so glad I found you, Katarina, and this group. I've leaned back from a place of being ok if he
didn't respond (with some minor freak outs) and in just a week he's saying I'm his. Thank you."
You see leaning back is way of being with guys. You can't lean back in the beginning and start leaning forward once you are in relationship. Guys by nature would like to be in charge of how fast the relationship should move forward and they want to lead the rowing. When you get too indulgent and
start pushing him to move the relationship forward he will back off and leave you wondering...just like before he claimed you.
That's what happened with Kristin. Luckily, she found
me and started to remedy the situation by cultivating and surrendering to her feminine essence.
Kristin got my Valentine's Day Special Package 5 that consists of replays of my hit programs Journey Inward and Leaning Back workshop. This is something you might want to consider to turn your love life around as many have with my very simple method (but heavy on the inner work).
And have you listened to the replay of last week's Valentine's special teleclass yet? If not, here it is. It won't be up for long but if you want to download it to your computer you can do it by purchasing my ebook.
Last but not least, both of my hit programs will start this weekend Feb 8 and 9. If you are having a challenge in your relationship and dating life, please sign up for both Journey Inward and Leaning Back workshop and I will give you a bonus 45 min one-on-one Skype session (value: $100) so I can personally coach you on how to solve any problem you have the feminine and high-value way. Affordable plans are available for both.
Love,
Katarina
