She keeps freaking out...I call it the freak out syndrome. This is how the cycle runs:
A woman finds herself in a difficult situation with a man.. . She doesn't understand
why he's doing what he's doing... She then tries to do what she assumes is the right thing but it doesn't work...
She then feels stuck and eventually freaks out.
It's no surprise why so many women are leading a life of silent desperation. The point I am trying to make here is that when women drive themselves completely nuts by freaking out over and over again, it messes them up completely over time.
And it's
often aggravated because they listen to their girlfriends too much even though each time it happens their relationships suffer some more and often end up in repeated breakups.
But it doesn't stop here...
In fact! Under such a situation a woman unknowingly does things which push a man further away. Here are the two most common routes women take:
1- They first try to convince a man.
2- And when the first option doesn't work, they try to argue their way into his head.
I don't know why but women have this inner belief that if they can just explain their situation to a man he will somehow get it.
Guess what? It doesn't really work that way. You can never make him understand your situation when you try hard to drill your point into his head. In fact,the harder you try, the further he will pull himself.
And when convincing him doesn't work, they take the second route, which is to argue or fight and finally when things get really bad, they use blame and guilt to get their point across.
Let me explain this with a good
example...
Let's say your man is starting to get distant and you fear that maybe he is planning to leave you. You first try to understand why he is getting distant, but things aren't making any sense, as a result you freak out.
Next, you try to talk to him about it, you say things like: "Honey! I don't know why you are avoiding me like this, what have I done? Are you planning to leave me? Have you found someone else? I need answers."
And you still don't get the answers you need and as a result your anxiety is starting to turn into anger. You feel that you deserve answers from him and in the process you say things like: "I am sick and tired of not getting answers from you. You aren't pulling your share of weight in the relationship, I feel like I am doing all the work. You only care about yourself."
This is a major mistake which can literally shake the foundation of a relationship. When you use this approach a man only feels attacked and his first reaction is to get even more distant to avoid confrontation.
It's important to understand that you can't hold a gun to his head and make him get it. You are following an utterly hopeless strategy if you think you can.
There is a better way - There are things you can do and say which will naturally make a man want to open up to you, give you all
the love you need and be devoted to you for the rest of his life.
I have a brand new program that will just deal with all these issues.
It's called Four Components Of Melting His Heart.
I will give you practical advice on how to deal with your triggers and how to get what you need from your man without pushing him away. This program together with my two other hit programs of Journey Inward and Leaning Back
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You know what I teach is often counterintuitive but it works like a charm. You know why? Cause it comes from a place of authentic fullness and wholesomeness. Your high vibration is palpable in everything you do. Everyday I see results in our growing community. But sometimes I endorse other coaches who might give a different perspective to mine (there are many routes to Rome) cause I know they have a valid POV too.
Check this one out:
How To Read A Man
Love,
Katarina
