This is what she shared:

"My ex reclaimed me again on 7-11-14. Took me out to a fancy ills loan restaurant on Pearl Street in boulder and asked me to be exclusive with him again!

We were together 2 1/2 years then he broke up with me. His son was being influenced by his ex to hate me. We (the kids and I). had always gotten along fine until the ex began pressuring the kids. I had been invited to North Carolina for his family trip to celebrate his parents 50th wedding anniversary. The ex freaked out when she found out I was going and began to work from every angle to sabotage it. She has a personality disorder called BPD. She was unfortunately very successful and we split up prior to the trip. 

We had been apart for two months. However after three weeks of being split he began contacting me every day. Randomly showing up out of the blue and calling daily. He told me how much he loved me but didn't reclaim me. I let myself grieve for three days after our split. Then I began to focus on me. I meditated. I worked out. I spent time with family and friends and above all I never once contacted my ex. 

Every time I heard from him I was super sweet and allowed myself to connect with him. I was light and fun and playful energy. I began flirting with him and complementing him. I only mirrored his behavior though. I feel that was very important. I didn't question him about anything. I didn't ask him about his single life at all. I wanted him to wonder what I was up to rather than me to be consumed by thoughts of what he was doing. It totally worked!

He asked me on a date. He brought me flowers and took me to dinner in another town. At dinner he began to speak to me very seriously. He said he wants me to be his girlfriend exclusively and he never plans on breaking up with me again. He told me he didn't know how important I was in his life until I wasn't there anymore. He said he never wants to feel that way ever again. He missed me and his life is better with me in it. He said even when things get difficult that breaking up with me is no longer the option. We will work thru things together. 

He told me he wants to marry me a year or two down the road. We both cried and hugged. I heard someone in the restaurant say did they just get engaged? Lol! Although that hasn't happened yet I am not worried or focused on marriage. I am focused on creating a solid connection between him and I that is strong enough to survive all of life's challenges. That is what really matters after all. Marriage will naturally follow as Katarina Phang teaches and I believe it! She has changed my life! I am a soft easy going woman now who knows her own worth. I came to her broken and stuck in self destructive patterns. I am free now. Free to love and free to attract abundance in my life. It's truly been an amazing experience!"

Why do men get cold feet?  It can happen in 3 months or 3 years.  Anytime.  My boyfriend, as easy as our relationship is, has his moments too.   And they are often unprompted cause we rarely argue. In fact, I think sometimes he wonders if this is too good to be true so he gets scared cause he might get in so deep and our relationship turns out to be too good to be true, indeed.

Men have their own insecurities and fear.  They have been burned and for a man, especially, recovering from a huge emotional blow can take a while.  They may not realize how not totally healed they are till they're in a relationship.  That's why you get "I'm not ready for a relationship" line a lot!

A woman who is secure and soft enough to allow her man to process his fear in his own time has a special place in his heart.  My method teaches you to become that special woman a man can't afford to lose.

Diana was in the new program Four Components Of Melting His Heart (other than all my other programs) that will be relaunched on August 9 with new and improved content.  You can sign up here:

Four Components Of Melting His Heart

Whatever situation you are in I can surely help you improve it.  My track record speaks for itself.  And it's mighty hard to go through this situation alone. That's why for most people relationship coaching isn't a luxury but a NECESSITY.  It is the one investment you can freely give yourself because you are WORTH it.

Four Components Of Melting His Heart

Now, here's the good new.  Every few months I hold a free teleclass.  I'm aiming Thursday, August 7, 2014.  I will confirm later with ways to access it.  Please let me know if you have a question, topic idea or a story you want me to dissect.  And of course this teleclass will also be added as a bonus for my ebook He's Really That Into You, He's Not Ready.  So please get it and have the recording (and those of previous teleclasses) downloaded to your computer or tablet.

He's Really That Into You, He's Not Ready

Love,

Katarina