From "Psycho Bitch" To "Balanced" To "Girlfriend" To "Move In Together" in A Few Months!

Published: Fri, 03/21/14

Hi,

My client Sheila couldn't believe at how much progress she's been making since she completed the Journey Inward program in January. She found me after her EUM found her to be "unfit" thanks to her masculine-energy rage. She started dating around using the tools and principles I teach. And about a month ago she updated the ladies in the group with this:

"Hi everyone. It's been a while since I last posted here. I used all that quiet/alone time to reflect and heal and take care of things that needed to be taken care of. I still read posts here and there, just not saying anything. Hope everyone's doing okay.

First of all, I'm A LOT calmer than I was when I first joined the group. I distracted myself with anything and everything I could direct my attention to. I got curious about OKCupid so I joined in to meet new friends and expand my network.

I met an Indian radiologic physicist who's doing residency at a cancer hospital. He's young, 8 years my junior. Not my type. And boy, hot-blooded. I absolutely refused to have anything happen with us.

There were others who left their numbers but I didn't text them and they didn't call me either. There was one older military dude who doesn't know whether to pursue me or whatever. He just sends random good morning, have a nice day messages. And then there was another 30-year old man who really liked me but I just couldn't picture myself with anyone at least 5 years younger. He wanted us to go out on a date but I hesitated meeting anyone young again after the Indian physicist.

And then here comes M. He's 11 years older. A divorcé and has 2 little boys. For his age, he's gorgeous. As in where has he been hiding all this time kind of gorgeous, hahaha! My kind of man too. Tall, Caucasian, fit, handsome.

We met in person on Dec 22 and had a picnic at the beach. We saw each other again on Christmas eve for a dinner date and got intimate. I kind of got worried at first but let it go and enjoyed the moment. He also took me to Maui for a lil New Year's R&R. He said as we continued seeing each other that he's ready to be exclusive. We've been inseparable since. We're scheduled to go on another trip in May for a longer Memorial Day weekend.

I've never been called an amazing person but M does. He says he feels good when he's with me and that I'm his happy pill. He thinks I'm a balanced person and that I'm open and receptive. I laugh about it because ex-EUM thought and made it known to his circle that I was a psycho bitch.

I'm no longer as reactive to triggers like I used to be. That's why it was kind of amusing to me to hear M call me 'balanced', hahahaha!

M introduces me to his friends as his girlfriend. His two boys call me Auntie and both cling to me like saran wrap, especially the younger one.

I ran into ex-EUM once or twice. His press release to our common friends was he wanted to say Hi to me but I just ignored him. After all that's happened between us, I just want to keep my life quiet, away from him, away from drama.

I work, I work out, go out with my friends or keep to myself when I'm not with him. M is happy that I take care of myself so he takes inspiration from that and tries to maintain the same. We had a lil misunderstanding a couple weeks ago (maybe due to the retrograde?). I mirrored his actions and he bounced back. He didn't like me putting distance when he did so he reached out and told me he misses me. Win!

I'm enjoying my moments with him. I compliment him and he feels good about it. I still don't have expectations though. Not putting pressure on him. Just living in the moment.

While I was doing Journey Inward, I was still in grieving mode. So the classes helped a lot to regain my ground. Then I made myself busy with my dance classes, crossfit and hiking. M just popped up from oblivion.

Before Journey Inward, I never knew I had abandonment issues. So when I was doing the meditations with you Katarina, I looked as far back as I could remember, from childhood to my marriage. All of my insecurities were from being treated like I didn't exist and had no say on anything. So I was needy and clingy and lost myself in relationships one after the other. I was operating mostly on masculine energy because it was about survival (I was the breadwinner when I was still married). I had no clue how to be feminine, hahaha!

After Journey Inward, I learned to let go of wanting to control. I didn't need to anymore since I don't have anyone to support but myself. I literally force-learned how to be receptive again and get myself centered. I forgave everyone, myself included, for all of those unhealed wounds and the pain they inflicted on my person. With M, he leads and plans. I just go with the flow and proof of that is M said out loud he feels really masculine in my company."

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Less than two weeks later, she updated her situation with this:

"I got a surprise from M this morning as we were getting ready to take the lil ones out...

He handed me a key to his apartment.

I kept it cool and casual (thankfully, I was putting on make up and didn't wanna mess up, hahaha!).

Then he jokingly asked if I am ready for such a big responsibility. Hahaha!

I'm very happy Katarina. I was just floored about him handing me a key. He's mentioned it before but I wasn't expecting he'd do it. So until it happened, I didn't put too much thought into it. Then last Wednesday, he repeated that he thinks we have a good thing going for us. I'm just receiving what he offers instead of jumping the gun (like I probably used to do in my past relationships)."

Then 2 days ago she posted another update:

"Things have been going great with M but he completely threw me off yesterday when he said we should sit and talk about moving in together. (Ack!)

Well, I didn't literally say "ack!", haha, but I didn't say "yes", either.

Anyhow, M said he could see himself growing old with me. It was probably the same week he handed me a key to his apartment. I didn't freak out at that. The old me would've bawled my eyes out and hyperventilated, hahaha!

I'm just processing all of it right now. M started the ball rolling when he asked me last Sun if I wanna move to his neck of the woods. I kinda made a face and said no. He didn't say anything anymore after that. Then it hit me that the seemingly innocent question wasn't really innocent but was his way of bringing up a major subject minus the awkwardness.

Well, he brought it up straight to my face. I calmly listened to him say his piece. He said he knows that we are still very new and that living together could either be good or detrimental for us. It's not for financial reasons but that he enjoys being with me. Both of his kids love me. He loves that I'm very affectionate and often compliment him (I'm just of the mind since taking up Katarina's class to celebrate the man's strengths vs his flaws). He also said he really appreciates that I motivate him about his fitness, diet and health.

In response, I told M that I'm not opposed to nor repulsed by the idea of us living together. I'm very practical and I do know the benefits. I said it's something to think about because I do enjoy spending time with him. And I left it at that. He agreed and repeated that we should sit and talk about it.

M is very affectionate. He does work hard on keeping himself fit and he said that aside from health, it is to keep up with his sexy girlfriend. He treats me really well and he likes to plan things and vacations, etc. He leads and I feel very feminine with him.

We also work like a team. He cooks, I clean up. When he does laundry and if I happen to be around, I fold them. I do my crossfit workout, he goes running or biking. I went with him this morning to his gym. He was really happy/stoked about it and he left for work on a high.

However, I LOVE my independence. That and I want to have my own cave to do my own thing or at the very least, crash at.

Thoughts?"

Sheila's love life turned around quickly after signing up for Journey Inward. In just a couple of months she went from "psycho bitch" to "balanced" to "girlfriend" and now he's moving the relationship forward to a new level only after a few weeks of claiming her.

She has learned the valuable lesson to lure with honey and that is only possible when she cultivates self-love and healed her woundedness.

They get along famously so I don't think they'll have a problem moving in together albeit it sounds early. Mind you Joe moved in with me in April last year, only after about 4 months seeing each other intensively and we are now looking for a bigger new apartment to move in and start our new life together, possibly with a baby in the mix.

The drastic change as Sheila and I -and many of other clients of mine- are experiencing is possible as long as you raise your energetic frequency. Remember, people and the world respond to your energy.

This is not hocus-pocus, ladies. This all requires commitment to change our dysfunctional pattern and to improve ourselves to become a better human being and woman.

I invite you to sign up for my cutting-edged inner work program you won't find anywhere else: The Journey Inward: The First Defining Steps Toward Feminine Magnetism.

Our last class is this Saturday. This cycle has been the best so far. If you want to know the best way to get your ex back, this is it. Next cycle we'll have Kirstieas our guest star. Learn from her how her softened boundaries turned an ex into a loving husband. You can pick either to be included in this cycle or next cycle. I project next cycle will start in May after the end of my brand new program you don't want to miss either: Four Components Of Melting His Heart.

This new program will assure your fledgling relationship to continue to blossom and progress SMOOTHYLY and without interruptions. You will learn the philosophy (big picture) of my method in Journey Inward and you will learn the PRACTICAL application of that philosophy in Four Components Of Melting His Heart.

Love,

Katarina