Hi ,
My client Miranda who was at a brink of a divorce when she found me shared this today in the group: "I have never read other dating websites or followed other coaches so I have nothing to compare it to. I have spent a lot
of time reading philosophy, theology and books about ego and other such topics. Kat's teachings are more than just dating advice.
What I see, is a universal truth being applied to dating and relationships. It has been rewritten in way that even those not on a some deep spiritual quest can follow and it's practical advice.
It's brilliant.
It works because it's basically being taught how to tap into the matrix
of your relationship. It requires complete letting go to work and that is difficult for a lot of people. I have witnessed people on spiritual quests in other areas of my personal life and resistance brings up all kind of negative emotions, like anger and anxiety. That's the ego.
The ego is fear and it doesn't want to let go. The closer one gets to having a break thru, the louder the ego gets. That's the moment when you just have to give in and free fall. That's the
moment when you will "just get it."
In Timothy Leary's version of "The Tibetan Book of the Dead," when feeling anxiety creep up, he suggests imagining yourself floating on a river. Give into the water and flow with it until the anxiety goes away. Water is feminine. That concept has helped me a lot in dealing with anxiety of my past. I could go on about this topic for a long time. I love philosophy.
And a quick update... My marriage
is still better than ever and I'm blown away daily. I practice leaning back in my marriage. I don't text, I don't call, I don't plan, I talk less and I focus on me. I receive with grace and I let him lead. The more leaning back, honey and non-attachment I practice, the happier we both get. People can say what they want. This shit works :).
Thank you, Kat. You were the missing link for me: )"
Miranda saved her marriage alone by practicing what I
teach. No marital counseling necessary and it doesn't work most of the time anyway (it doesn't work because it's focused on how to "communicate" and basically how to STILL expect the other person to be whom you want them to be).
Saving a relationship only happens when one person (yep it takes JUST one person to shift the entire dynamic of a relationship) is willing to work on themselves and change the way they approach an issue by changing their perspectives
and working on their reactiveness.
When you the way you see things change, the things that you see begin to change as well.
In a nutshell, when you change the whole world changes with you.
Weakening of the ego is the focus of my teaching. Only when the ego is weakened relationship is easy. There are not so many strategies to get anything from anyone because the weakened ego doesn't
really care. With that lightness of being you become a magnet to people and relationships.
You get everything when you don't need or expect anything.
THIS is the missing link of all relationship advice out there. The softening of boundaries, the realization that you have had everything you ever wanted filled by other people (or men).
I teach the kind of sorcery you won't find
anywhere else in the niche, hence the 41 engagements this year alone (the last one just happened this week).
Your first reaction -I know- will be "Whaaaaat? How can you not be treated like a doormat when you don't have so many boundaries/expectations?"
Yep that's the ego's first reaction to what I teach: fear and separation.
While in fact fear and the sense of separation is why you have these problems in
relationship in the first place.
My programs teach you to understand how the ego creates this entanglement and with that understanding you become a powerful human being and Goddess. In that spirit I'm offering my
Holiday packages so you can start addressing the recurring egoic patterns that hamper and stall all your relationships. The offer is valid till January 1, 2016.
Start the new year with a new brain.
Once you gain this wisdom every aspect of your life will improve as well.
That is the reason why I become the most effective human being my entire life and thrive in both of my professional and romantic lives. In fact I will talk about this in my
upcoming event next Saturday! Yep, I will reveal the secrets of my success, how you can lean back in both career and relationships and be immensely rewarded at both.
My speech will be titled: “How To Lean Back And Become A Goddess In both Love and Career” How can you enjoy the journey and still get to the destination without stresses, pressure and
being enslaved by goals. The less you feel distressed which means the less are in your head in whatever you do, the better the result is, that sums up my philosophy of life
There is a small fee to attend the event but all will go to our veterans.
Heck, I would even allow you to pick 3 only if that's all you can afford. Respond this email and I will
arrange that for you.
Thank you for being my fans and supporters. I want nothing but success for all of you.
