And eight engagements have been reported this year (that makes a total of 70 since I published
my book 2.5 years ago)! It turns out that my
record of one engagement/week still continues, not to mention many exes are back and relationships saved/improved. It's happening every day in the support group (wanna be a part of this one-of-a-kind support group in which 3000+ members and I actively give free advice? Get
my book and be done with the generic relationship advice out there that doesn't work).
Here's engagement #7 Cynthia as she shared just a few days ago in the group (she couldn't afford anything else but by just reading the ebook and be a part of my support group she reaped the rewards big time and she was actually one of the resistant ones of my teaching but finally she got hold of her ego and turned her relationship
around):
"Hi, everyone! Well, for those who remember my story, just wanted to say that he brought me ring shopping the whole week after having asked me a week ago if I wanted us to be engaged to each other and exchange rings.
I still can't believe this EUM of all EUMs could make such a huge step. So, EVERYTHING is possible :). Thank you Katarina Phang <3.
We have been on and off for 3 years. We broke up loads of
time due to my insecurity and neediness. I think I was the worst of Katarina's girls. My divorce and me having 4 kids and being 4 years older than him and he being single and enjoying sooo much his freedom did not help.
I did all the things that you should not do. Even after knowing about Kat's teachings, I resisted a lot and always fell back into my old patterns and pushed him away again and again. I think the fact that I decided to let go, work on myself, accept
him as he is and respecting his need for freedom and independence is what led us to this today.
More than leaning back is that I allowed him the freedom to be who he is.. Like Kat said: accept or reject.. Because I love him so much, I finally decided to accept him the way he is and he became slowly the best version of himself. I stopped nagging, being a control freak and all the stuff that pushed him away. I did not expect the ring AT
ALL.
What has surprised me most is that he not only wanted me to wear a ring but he was the one who said he would wear one too.. And he told his friend, who is a jeweler, that he wants a ring that lasts forever!!!! I am so shocked. I still can't believe it's true...
The longest we were apart after a breakup was 4 months... He always came back but I was worse each time and never learned.. This time we did not break up but he was
distant by the beginning of Dec till mid-January. And I felt that I had to change if I wanted things to change.
This year is the first time he spent Valentine's day with me and I felt then that something had changed in both of us.
I have been struggling for 3 long years and still am from time to time but I know deep down that I don't want to be that person that I was for those 3 years.. It was so toxic for both of us.
I
think it's the hardest thing I have done: let go of control but something has shifted inside of me and I won't be that woman anymore. I think he sensed that it was genuine this time and all the inner work I have done all alone has paid.
I understand that the work never ends but I so like this feeling of being secure in this relationship now that I know I will only get better and better if that makes sense.
I also resisted because I thought that
the problem was entirely because of him. I hated Kat when she told me that I was the one pushing him away because I was sure that he was the one who caused me to be needy and insecure.
In fact, Kat was right all the time.. I had to deal with my issues, regardless of him...
Whether he changes or not becomes irrelevant at some point because you feel so good when you finally decide that you have work to do and get to do the
work. (I apologize if my English is not very clear)
And I also got to the point where even if he left, I would be ok. But I did not want him to leave because of me. I wanted to be the best version of myself and if he left, then it would be because of him and nothing to do with me.
I have realized that it is so so important to be grateful and we have so many things to be grateful for. I was a very negative person, always complaining,
never seeing the good that was happening to me. Writing about things I am grateful for, whether about him or other aspects of my life, has completely changed my life. Again thank you so very much xxxx"
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my FB page to read numerous success stories everyday. Even
by just reading these stories, you learn so much and it's all for...FREE!
And as if all these freebies weren't enough, I'm going to also hold a free preliminary class for my upcoming
Feminine Magnetism Group Coaching. Mark your calendar,
Wednesday, March 16, at 11 am EST/8 am PT.
I will send you the link through this newsletter so stay subscribed and tell your friends as well. If you can't attend live the recording will be available as well.
If you are considering to turn your love life around (and actually not just your love life but your life period because what I teach works in every aspect of life), you can't go wrong with this ultimate program that has never been
taught anywhere in human history. And with my super solid track record you know you can't be NOT reborn after this 5-7 month program.
Looking forward to talking to you in the call.
Love,
Katarina
