"Hey Katarina! It's been super
long since you and I spoke. I'm currently engaged! But here is the deal I still need your teachings and classes. I know you help a lot of people and don't expect you to remember me we did a Skype way back. I've gone through some changes and grew
a lot. However for my own skills and values I don't want to ruin what we have built these last few months we are getting ready to move in again with one another tomorrow to our new place. I'm excited and nervous in one we have our little girl and my biggest priority is for to be in a healthy atmosphere. I'm not sure where to start I would love take a class. I already have the book but not
sure which one first. Thank you so much and thank you for what you do. I will share just a brief background on the both of us. We have def had our share of ups and downs and honestly there's so much more for myself I need and will continue to work on (Kat's trainings) lol.....
We have a 4 yr old little girl and yes I did everything backwards considering got pregnant
very fast he and I had not built a strong foundation from the start. I got pregnant at 21 and he was 23 so still so much growing up we both had to do.
Last year I came to Kat did a Skype call with her and she laid it to me what changes I needed to make and I will be honest it was hard to hear those things because yes we all want to believe from the start it's "them" that need do all the changing..... I did get her book would read it here and there and then put it back down and not pick it up for a while and would slip into old behaviors. January this year was a huge turning point I had him leave our home for things were so off balance: no trust, no commitment, no friendship it was scary and we had a blow up over
taxes. At that point I took time to swallow that he was gone and learned to move life with just me and my daughter and for about 3 week period there was no talking between either one of us except for drop off and pick up with our daughter. I kept it very peaceful did not turn to courts, family (which love to start more drama lets face it), or arguing it was just simply he was gone and now
what.
So I have to be honest because I would feel like I was doing everyone a disservice if I was not. I turned to a lot prayer and strength for myself I don't know if any of you believe in a higher power but I do and it was go time no more tears or stressing over what was going to happen in the future.
After about a month of silence in peace he started trying to talk
more and I was very careful on how much I let him and how fast...over spring and early summer we built a friendship more than we ever had again he was not living with us but he was staying with his buddy and our daughter and I together.
I noticed through time him being more attentive, thoughtful, loving so i went with it still trying not to be demanding of anything yes it is hard. But he did the moving forward we started going on
dates together, went camping with his sister and her husband and just did life.
I will be honest I know Kat teaches not to keep sex away but I did for a
few months because I knew for me thats the place I was in and needed to be for awhile. And then right before June he called our pastor a younger couple who used to live across the street from his old place and we started a couples pre marital counseling but it was not your typical lets go sit in a room and talk problems it was really putting our focus on the Lord, we would be in there home and usually have dinner with them no cost to us just two great people who wanted to see us
succeed. So he and I stayed committed we would go to their house once a week and just as of Monday they left back to their hometown in Louisiana so it was bitter sweet to say goodbye to them. And on July 28 we had our final dinner with our pastor and his wife and that's when he popped the question.
Yes it's still hard to believe and deft is and will always be a work
in progress. I came to Kat this morning to ask for continue guidance because I believe just because he asked me doesn't mean I can't learn more or do better, and her teachings are a lifetime investment.
I'm thankful to have made two really good friends on this and believe its awesome to go to woman who are learning Kat's teachings too so we all help one another and can push for each of us to have love in our lives and to love
ourselves.....the story still goes on and if any of you have questions or want know more I will go in more detail. Thank you for letting me share."
This is Bernadette's: "Hi Kat! I won't share with anyone else as per now, but I am in a romance,
and this is THE romance of a lifetime! I am not ready to make it public, but when I do, it will be so fun! I am DEEPLY in love with my soulmate, who I have known for 3 years now. At this stage all I can do is tell you that. But softening my boundaries is WHY it has worked out! All my relationship studies finally gelled and made sense!
Thank you so much for helping me along in that! I am so glad I didn't settle! I am with the most wonderful man in the world and we are engaged!"
The two ladies have been in toxic relationships before they found me. Low self-esteem and childhood wounds are why these ladies picked the wrong men and wrong relationships.
To find Mr. Right you have to be Ms. Right first.
You might be not as extreme as these two ladies in terms how toxic their past relationships were. But if you look back and reflect on the history of your
relationships, you will see a pattern there.
Maybe you always were so drawn to elusive or abusive men. Maybe you have always been in rocky, co-dependent relationships.
Whatever it is you know it's time to change. You wonder how and why a man can have so much power over you and your sanity, right?
So you can start now by signing up for Module 1, there are 11 classes there that will blow your mind away.
And with the end of Module 1, we will move on to Module 2 this coming Sunday, August 14, at 3 pm EST.
This program has resulted in 17 engagements in just 3 cycles. So this will be Cycle 4 and surely be IMPROVED with more insights into men's psyche.
These are four components of melting a man’s heart that I teach all
my clients without which your relationship will remain STAGNANT and/or volatile and with which their men become so madly in love with them that they step up to the plate WITHOUT URGING or NUDGING:
Week 1: Trusting him. Trust inspires a man to rise to the occasion. He feels accepted and connected to you as the result. This class will explore how to trust him anyway even when you are feeling shaky inside. Without trust your relationship will crumble in no
time.
Week 2: Thanking/appreciating him. How to encourage good behaviors that get you more good behaviors and how to overcome your displeasure of things that bother you by shifting your perspective, and thus energy.
Week 3: Respecting his leadership. How to be comfortable in the feminine role of following a man’s lead and respond in a feminine way when you disagree with him and need to veto his decision.
Week
4: Communicating to him in a non-verbal way that he understands and appreciates when words have fallen on deaf ears. Learn the secret of why and how men would listen to you. Women often follow generic advice out there on how to communicate with guys that do more damage than helping them getting what they want. This class will reverse that.
Week 5: Bonus Session, the never-before-revealed Seven Reasons Why Men Marry Some Women and Dump Others. This class alone is
worth the entire program!
Sign up on the link below (just Module 2 or the entire program). Plans are available. Write me if you need a different plan.
Our last class with Kellie was a blast. Remember, her guy ditched her cause he was getting cold feet, just before they were about to move in together. It was nothing she did. She's a Kat Girl through and through and she handled the breakup with so much dignity.