Hi ,
Yesterday I posted the recording of a live class on FB that seemed to be pretty popular, more so than the others, since it talks about a subject that pushes a lot of people's button: sex. You can watch it
here.
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your life- will change for the better.
We have so much judgment when it comes to sex. Many women come to me with skewed view and thus expectations when it comes to sex and that's why they can't get the guy to move the relationship to the next level.
We're scared by it, almost, because sex is very fundamental. It's basic instinct. We think we need to regulate it so it stops ruling our lives. And we women think since it's so powerful we can turn it
into a bargaining chip.
But little did we know, repressing it is a source of a lot of emotional and psychological damages in us. And turning it into a power struggle is the last thing that makes healthy relationship. We become a splintered personality (a split mind) as a result. We walk like a cripple because we carry so much inner conflicts and resistance within us.
Sexual energy is a life force and repression isn’t
going to make it disappear, but merely go underground. If you condemn and suppress it you’re going against life/nature.
Suppression makes it ugly. Sex in actuality is innocent energy, people give it a label bad or good, right or wrong and create an emotional entanglement in the process.
What we need to do is to recognize and have it move freely in the body finding its natural expression. For most people, it will lead to sexual intercourse. For some this energy will be transcended and transformed into something else.
Bottom line is,
energy can’t be created nor destroyed. It can only be transformed from one form into another. Your role is to be conscious of it and how this energy is being channeled/expressed.
So in this class you will learn to relax about your natural essence: that you're a sexual being. It's perfectly alright to be sexual like it's perfectly okay to want to eat when you're hungry. Resisting it will create all sorts of issues between you and men and
this, to many of you, is exactly
why your relationship never launches and you're perpetually single.
What you have learnt and will continually learn from me is I'm not about repression. I'm about
transformation. With more awareness, we can one day transform sexual energy into something beautiful, like enlightenment.
We're about looking without prejudice. We’re not for or against. We’re about non judging awareness. This is the law of allowing: let the dusts settle, let the water clear out of the mud of its own accord….and it will. Awareness is like fire. It’s a transformational force.
The more aware you are, thus, the less sexual you become. The sexual energy is being channeled upward toward divinity instead moving downward to sexual
expression/activities.
When you drop the mind completely you become a non sexual being (hence Buddha, Jesus and most sages were celibate). It’s celibacy by nature (not thorough mind imposition).
In the state of no mind in which all thoughts have disappeared, you are awareness itself. What is natural lasts. What is repressed and engineered will leak through other channels and become unconscious.
So
in this program you will learn to be more conscious. You will learn to bring awareness into everything you do: eat with more awareness, talk with more awareness, listen with more awareness, walk with more awareness, attend to tasks with more awareness and even falling asleep with more awareness.
If you also conduct your sexual activities with more awareness so you no longer see it in terms of exploiter vs. the exploited, you will also let the
relationship unfold consciously and be a conscious participant in the relationship. When you are conscious you can’t be harmed. Only your deep-asleepness (unconsciousness) will put you in a harm way.
I will give you practice in this class to dive and surrender into your desire by bypassing the mind, so sex becomes your meditation. Let it move freely so it doesn’t create a block.
We won’t judge our desire. We will learn to surrender into it. Those of you who are so guilt and shame ridden about your sexuality that you have been repressing it for so long, it’s now time to befriend your sexual desire and in fact
encourage it to come out. Those who are governed by lust can practice to move that energy upward.
You don't want to miss this class/program. It could very well be the missing link of why you're always unlucky in life. Please respond to this email if you need a plan.