This month is a raining-engagement month! So far we have had reported 5 (yes FIVE) engagements that increase the tally to 9 (yes NINE) this year and a total of 157 the last 4 years.
They are Carrie, Fatma, Amanda, Kellie and Priya. You can read their stories (the
last two are coming) on
my page so please like and follow it then check "see first" so you'll be kept in the loop for any update including free classes as I conduct them a lot these day.
Though their background stories vary, what they have in common is the realization that they can
only focus on their own well-being because when you are making sure your own emotional tank is full at all time, a guy will just need to do his share to bring you to even higher altitude of joy and gratitude.
The big portion of that responsibility lies on your shoulders.
And this is why my success rate is mighty high because this is common sense to me.
So don't get discouraged or berate him when he's obviously
not fully in.
You can't talk him into giving you what you want. So instead foaming in the mouth, go back to your rotation. And you shouldn't give it up in the first place just because you like
each other and spend a lot of time together. Most guys can feel when you shift your attention somewhere else and that's what makes them want to pursue you.
Stop trying to figure things out. There is nothing to figure out. It is what it is in the moment, adjust to what is moment to moment. While you're busy burning so many calories analyzing things to death, tomorrow is a new day with a new set of circumstances and challenges...so do not cling as if
anything is permanent. Nothing is. And you can never get that time you wasted back.
Always take it one day at a time and have a curious -instead of an anxious- mindset. Your incessant drive to figure things out
will push him further away.
If you need something to refer to each time you aren't so sure, please get
my ebook now. It's the Bible of modern dating and you will no longer be confused when you get these hot and cold signals from
a guy.
The less you are affected by him,
the more you become so mesmerizing to him because you stand out from the rest of the girls he knows or used to know. He's not used to a goddess because there aren't many
around.
And
options will do that for you so please have an abundant mentality and don't be presumptuous by claiming a guy and becoming his girlfriend without his consent.