Is He A Bad Guy Just Because He's Not Ready To Jump In With Both Feet?

Published: Thu, 02/22/18

 
Is He A Bad Guy Just Because He's Not Ready To Jump In With Both Feet?
Hi , 

This month is a raining-engagement month!  So far we have had reported 5 (yes FIVE) engagements that increase the tally to 9 (yes NINE) this year and a total of 157 the last 4 years.

They are Carrie, Fatma, Amanda, Kellie and Priya.  You can read their stories (the last two are coming) on my page so please like and follow it then check "see first" so you'll be kept in the loop for any update including free classes as I conduct them a lot these day.

Though their background stories vary, what they have in common is the realization that they can only focus on their own well-being because when you are making sure your own emotional tank is full at all time, a guy will just need to do his share to bring you to even higher altitude of joy and gratitude.  

The big portion of that responsibility lies on your shoulders.

And this is why my success rate is mighty high because this is common sense to me.

So don't get discouraged or berate him when he's obviously not fully in.  You can't talk him into giving you what you want.  So instead foaming in the mouth, go back to your rotation.  And you shouldn't give it up in the first place just because you like each other and spend a lot of time together. Most guys can feel when you shift your attention somewhere else and that's what makes them want to pursue you.

Stop trying to figure things out.  There is nothing to figure out.  It is what it is in the moment, adjust to what is moment to moment.  While you're busy burning so many calories analyzing things to death, tomorrow is a new day with a new set of circumstances and challenges...so do not cling as if anything is permanent.  Nothing is.  And you can never get that time you wasted back.

Always take it one day at a time and have a curious -instead of an anxious- mindset.  Your incessant drive to figure things out will push him further away.

If you need something to refer to each time you aren't so sure, please get my ebook now.  It's the Bible of modern dating and you will no longer be confused when you get these hot and cold signals from a guy.

The less you are affected by him, the more you become so mesmerizing to him because you stand out from the rest of the girls he knows or used to know.  He's not used to a goddess because there aren't many around.

And options will do that for you so please have an abundant mentality and don't be presumptuous by claiming a guy and becoming his girlfriend without his approval.
Fatma, for example, has been through so much when she first found me.  

She just broke up from her boyfriend and was suffering a whole lot.

She got him back after a few weeks...or at least kinda because it was never the same like before the breakup.

And the wanting and hoping hurt her some more till finally she was so sick of it.

She developed cancer and he was wavering again till finally she's done: "I opened my eyes ... and kept telling myself I only got one life and I shouldn't blow it on a man. I need to live in case I don't make it.... thank God I got better and beat it."

That's when she met her current fiancé and the rest is history.

Don't get mad at guys who aren't ready.  Getting mad only makes you suffer.  Release them with love.  It's not that they're necessarily bad people/men, they're just caring about themselves first and foremost.

And so should you.  Never apologize to care for your own self.  If you embrace self-care you will no longer meet and are attracted to "Narcissists" because what you see in them are mere reflection of you not taking care of your own needs like they do.

Fatma also signed up for Module 1 Journey Inward and 2 Understanding Men and Four Components of Melting His Heart of Feminine Magnetism group coaching.

And a bunch of the individual classes of the monthly audio including the hit "How To Be High Value and Easy To Lose" class and many hours of private coaching:

I'm the world's top expert on complicated/difficult relationships and non-committal men as my track record and over 2000 testimonials have indicated. I'm the last resort when everything else under the sun has failed.
Last but not least, I will only one coaching program going on this year other than the monthly membership that you can attend live.  This program is brand new and it's an exploration of your inner genius.


This program will inspire you to be the greatest you can be in your own field.  Because each one of you has that Genius Zone lying dormant waiting to be awakened.  We will start (tentatively at this point) 2nd week of March.  And if you sign up today you will get $500 discounted rate.  My programs typically increase in prices with time, not decrease.

Plans are available.  Just email me if you need any more consideration.  I'm always open to your suggestions.

I will also hold my Feminine Magnetism retreat in my beautiful home in Southern California on May 2 - 6 so please book your calendar.   And you will receive special invitation if you sign up for Midas Touch.  You can sign up and get the early bird specials for the first 8 people and we currently have 6 seats left!

Please write me if you're interested and have any inquiries. 

We had such a great one last September.  You will get to relax, have fun, socialize and make friends with like minds, eat gourmet healthy food while nourishing your soul and cultivating your feminine magnetism.

You'll come home a new person.  One of the participants Alexandra said this about the retreat:  "Ladies, if you’re hesitating about booking Kat’s Retreat, please don’t!

I hesitated before going because I’ve been in this group for almost 3 years, had bought so many of her materials (Journey Inward, Four Components of Melting His Heart, monthly membership and all the other classes this includes), and already felt very much in my feminine energy, so I wasn’t sure of the added benefit of going. Well I was wrong. The benefits of going were priceless for me!

Despite already ‘knowing' a lot of the material, being there and hearing Kat speak in person, being able to hang out and just relax with her and her wonderful partner Joey, and exchanging in person with the other girls, had strong and unexpected long-lasting benefits!

After returning I encountered a very rough patch in my personal life, and I saw first-hand how her soothing words and advice really helped me. I was able with the tools that she ingrained in me to get a grip on myself, turn things around, and become happy and calm once again, - all on my own.

The end result is that my already successful long term relationship with my live-in BF has reached new heights that I couldn’t even imagine possible. He’s the most present and attentive partner I ever had. He shows it everyday in a multitude of small ways.

And now he even offered to invite all my family and friends for New Years day - he will be cooking a big brunch and making mimosas for all my loved ones, on his own initiative.

So if the retreat is financially feasible for you, please don’t hesitate to join!

Sending lots of love and holiday wishes to all you Kat-girls,

Alexandra"


Love,
Katarina

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