Why Do A Lot Of Breakups Happen During Holidays?

Published: Mon, 12/24/18

Hi ,

Merry Christmas!! I hope you're having a great one. Last year we had friends come over. This year it will be just the three of us. Joe is going to cook all the Christmas feasts since he grew up in a large Italian family with all its traditions. It's a very important Holiday for him, naturally.

And if you're not feeling too great this Holiday season, trust me I get it. And I'm really sorry for that.

For 4 years after my split from my ex husband, each year I dreaded the Holidays. As much as I could, I would stay away from Christmas carols. They were just a painful reminder of what I didn't have and I was missing. We used to spend our Christmas at my ex's parents and we had such a great time.

It was painful when I found myself to be alone every Christmas and New Year since the split.

So for those who are just experiencing a breakup this time of year, I'm sending you hugs, love and prayers. Respond to this email so I can perhaps greet and offer some consolations if that will help you.

And be prepared with your questions because I feel like to hold a Live FB class either today or tomorrow. Please list them here.

I'm actually privately coaching a few ladies who are going through a breakup this season. You might wonder why do guys break up with you during Holidays? Why choose the most vulnerable time of the year? (get $100 off for my one-hour coaching here till January 5, use 100OFF as a coupon code or respond to this email so I can invoice you).

For a lot of guys, holidays are high pressure days because they're expected to show up during this time in a manner that is celebratory to the women they're in relationship with or are dating. There are so many expectations around this season and when they're not met they know they will be encountered with a lot of drama and hurt feelings that put them on the spot.

Especially if the relationships are still very early. Many guys aren't ready to be so vocal about their relationship in the early days. They don't like to be told what to do. They're not fully in yet. And if they're already feeling shaky about the connection, the pressure to "perform" is even more debilitating so the easiest way to deal with it for them is to break up before the festivities begin leaving the women (you) high and dry in their pain and suffering.

But it's nothing personal. Even though you can't see it right at this second, it really is not.

The pain and suffering provides an avenue for growth and healing. Trust in that even though it's so painful and hard to understand right now.

Your pain and suffering show you:

1. The mind tends to latch onto its object of fantasy and desire so it's very important to be conscious of this mind aspect at all time.

2. You have expectations how life should unfold and with every expectation you hold you run the risk of it not being met, thus creating you immense grief.

3. You don't know how to live in the moment and in unconditional happiness because your chaotic mind runs your life with its minute-to-minute broadcast of so many false and inaccurate things you in your unconsciousness holds as the absolute truth.

If you understand these 3 things, you will never suffer anymore no matter what happens in your life.

And the only dating/relationship coach on the planet who can teach you this is Katarina Phang.

Maybe it's time for you to do Journey Inward, currently at $60 off till January 5.

So don't miss my Holiday Specials. Get the programs you have always wanted and save significantly and some programs will automatically get you a FREE paid hotel stay in some of most exotic holiday destinations in the world.

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And my next Feminine Magnetism Retreat at my celestial home will be June 27-30, 2019. Right now we have ONE seat left for the Earliest Birds Specials that will give you $600 OFF as well as a complimentary vacation certificate mentioned above. And this time we'll have one full day dedicated for a new important subject Overcoming Depression. And you can also just come for this one-day workshop on June 30 if you can't come for the entire length of the retreat.

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And last but not least, my course based on the ebook has only ONE seat left as well for the 20% OFF so if you don't grab it today, I'm afraid it will be gone after the Holidays and you will never see this price ever again.

If you're new to my teachings, you might not know that I'm unique in the niche because I don't regurgitate the prevalent wisdom on emotionally unavailable or commitment phobic men that is also the basic premise of my best-selling ebook and with it my entire coaching practice. I have in fact revolutionized the dating niche by giving a completely unique take on the entire "emotionally unavailable and commitment phobic" genre that is so totally different than the general understanding and generic advice given on the subject matter.

I have proven it beyond the shadow of a doubt, in most cases it's not the men who are the problems. It's the women.

Nobody else has taken that bold stance before. Everyone in the niche has been singing the same tune when it comes to this perception of EUM and commitment phobic men.

Perception? Yes, I said exactly that. This is the Blind Spot of the relationship counseling industry the world over until Katarina Phang came into the picture.

The false perception is the problem. Unhealed mind perceives all kinds of things that aren't there (thus beware of the unhealed healers out there who will make your situation worse instead of better and this is why I'm the Last Resort). False perception leads to false diagnosis, which in turn leads to false solutions that don't address the real issue: i.e. women's lack of wisdom and knowledge on how men operate and how his commitment process unfolds.

So in light of the upcoming ecourse based on the ebook, this very topic will be the big grand opening of the course or the subject of the first week of the program. I will explain it to you at length why men don't think women do when it comes to relationship. They don't plan or anticipate it. And for most men their default mode is in fact "NOT READY."

Relationship is kinda falls onto his lap for a man. It develops naturally because it feels right. And women with the highest EQ will be the ones who "win this battle" as I have proven time and again with my results, unheard of in this business (and really unheard of, so if you hear this mentioned somewhere else, realize she's my copycat1 and you can let her know that you know).

Unless you understand this you will always lead with expectations (and expectations are attraction killers, listen tot this class why) and as such your reaction will be disproportionate to the magnitude of the situation and instead of drawing him closer, you push him further away.

So I don't want you to miss this 20% off for the $799 course that spans 10 weeks, 2 hours each. Sign up today because you'll be better off to learn the principles that I teach from MYSELF (and my trained coaches), not from my knockoffs who ironically charge 3 to 10 times more for who knows what result that might ensue (most likely won't be to your liking so be very wary about so many coaches who crazily charge you for their coaching, I have spoken to a few victims that have lost over 20k to these charlatans).

Sign up here (scroll down a bit), you can choose one payment or 2 monthly installments. and add yourself to the group designated for the course here.

The Course: He's Really That Into You, He's Just Not Ready

See who my new coaches are on the bottom of this email. One of them will be your mentor in navigating the murky waters of dating in the online era and you'll get a follow-up 40 min session with them!!.

And of course each week we have new announcements for engagement news. In December we have had at least 5 engagement and one wedding news. That makes a total 60 engagements, at least, this year alone which means I have broken the one engagement/week record I've consistently produced the last few year.

Here are engagements #55, #56, #57, and #58. And here's the last one who just rolled in #60.

To be honest it's getting harder and harder for me to keep up on the tally of these engagements. :) . The news rolls in faster than I can find time to broadcast them.

Please also like, follow and check "see first" on my page so you're always in the loop for quality content you won't find anywhere else.

And if you haven't been my free group group so please add yourself here. We just started to have the new coaches have live class in the group. Melody and Dasha, our new coaches, just did it the past 2 weeks. So to listen to them please add yourself to the group.

Mind you, just being in my group you're on the highway toward personal transformation. My groups are never dull and yawn-inducing like most other more "feminine" and "safe" groups which have more moderators and admins than daily posts cause they have scarcity mentality. And that is why the educational value of my groups can't be found anywhere else and that is why Kat is on the top of the niche today!

Now please read about our coaches below.

I introduced you with the first 2 new coaches the past month (you can see below).

Our third coach is Dasha. She is now married to her (former) rebounding EUM who got cold feet when she found me.

And her baby son is my God son so we've now become a family as well.

You can read her story here. She's a very mellow person, beautiful inside and out and she'll be a great addition to the team with her insights on how she moved on when he decided to break up with her, a decision that actually captivated him to no end.

Those of you in the same situation will be assigned with her as a mentor.

Now I want you to meet Tricia.

Tricia, like Melody, was one of my earliest clients. She has been the admin of my groups for 5 years now and the ladies always treat her as someone to go to for advice.

When she found me she was in a rocky on and off relationship with the father of her kids. At first they got back together for the last time not long after finding me but eventually Tricia knew that if she ever wanted to be married, she would be better off with a new man so in a style that only a Goddess possesses she walked away from the toxic relationship and started a rotation.

That was when she met Steve. Five years later he proposed and they're now happily married with a baby son.

You can read her story here. And you can also get her Goddess interview here (first series, #2).

You would love to have her as your mentor because she has the rare wisdom typical of a Kat Goddess.

Our other coach is Melody.

She found me in 2012 if I'm not mistaken. That was the year I published my ebook. She was then seeing an EUM and was pretty much a codependent like most of you: filled with anxiety and self-doubts while being so addicted to a lukewarm man.

She got the ebook and I gave her the email coaching that came with the ebook. Months later she was dating a new guy (who is now her husband), not long afterward they moved in and she always told me that she had no intention to marry again or she didn't care about marriage since she has been married for over a decade before.

She's been there done that and wasn't desperate at all for another marriage. She would just be happy in a happy stable relationship which she already had with Craig,

But of course like every Goddess that Kat produces eventually the man would want more of her so on her 50th birthday in August he wed her! She was considered engagement #36 this year even though they didn't get formally engaged first, one of 7 in August!!

You can read her story here.

The reason I pick Melody as one of my first coaches is because for the most part she really gets me. She's a moderate in most life issues as I am. Anyone who works with and for me has to be somewhat middle of the road and that's the result of GROWTH. One can't be a great relationship coach if one hasn't grown out of any one-sided view of anything.

I'm an exceptionally insightful coach because I'm FULLY integrated. I'm well-rounded. I have reclaimed every denied and repressed part of myself. I have embraced every part of my humanity. And I will surely train all my coaches to come to that wholeness because wholeness and holiness are one and the same.

So we have talked about this since last year but only 3 months ago, one night, I got the "revelation" that I had to start now. The next day I hired her. That was when I knew I was ready for the next chapter. These wonderful coaches will help me spread these important teachings to more women on every corner of the globe.

Yes, every corner of our Planet Earth. And yes it's mighty exciting. You'll see more of us for sure.

Stay tuned for our third coach Dasha on the next email.

There are so many ways to learn the sacred live and love skills that I teach. Most people start with the ebook with email and Skype coaching. And many can't get enough of my enlightening individual classes. You can get 5 class specials for $390.

If timing is something that is important to you, work with me as my premium/first priority client one-on-one and it's like having a genie in a bottle! You can ask me any question and get answered way sooner than my regular clients, within hours more often than not. You'll also get sharpest insights on human nature that will crack you open, wake you up from your lifetime slumber, give you more functional and empowering perspectives from which to operate on.

Love,

Katarina

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