Happy New Year! I hope you part ways with 2018 in good spirit. I did.
First of all, I did a live FB class on Christmas Day on "
Who Pays and For How Long?" It's a very touchy subject that I'm sure you're dying to know what my position is in the matter. If you like it, don't forget to like, love or forward the video.
2018 has been the turning point in my career. We experienced a healthy 65% growth (not exactly 75% as I thought it would be but hey I'm feeling very good about this). And we
had the most engagements as well at 60.
The first engagement of the year has even been reported! This year will be an epic year for us establishing my brand deeper in the niche. We will also begin copywriting and trademarking a lot of our signature programs, principles and terms which have made Katarina Phang a unique brand that unfortunately, like in any business, the minute you hit big there will be at least a handful of copycats around. I know my stuff and I know how unique it is so when somebody's
parroting me, it will be obvious to me.
And why is my stuff unique? It's unique because there is a very firm correction on perceptions and projections that unfortunately weren't very clear before I came into the picture because almost every coach was giving very generic advice that didn't take into account these perceptions and projections. That's how I have had so many success stories. I see the blind spot of most people (especially women) and point that out matter-of-factly.
That's how I know when those principles are being used, either accurately or semi-accurately or inaccurately (cause copiers still don't get the deeper stuff cause they haven't done the homework uncovering the layers of their false selves the way I have).
Take, for example, a case involving
one of my clients Gemma. I will just copy and paste what she reported in the group a few days ago:
"We first got together in 2013. He ran from me twice, November 2014 and December 2017. I was NOT a goddess lol.
He always wanted marriage. It was a life goal. When he mentioned it to me I wouldn’t let it drop, pushed and pushed the subject until he dropped the bomb “I don’t love you enough to marry you”. After that I told him he could leave if that was the way he felt and he did, leaving me and three children pretty damn devastated.
My relationship occupied too much of my focus. I lost a sense of who I was and as a consequence my partner lost who I was too.
I was depressed, vulnerable, broke and a complete mess. My GP diagnosed stress, anxiety and depression and prescribed a whole heap of drugs I didn’t want to take. So I didn’t.
I wanted to get him back and found lots of different coaches. One promised a ring which sounded ideal at the time. However this coach and her followers bullied me because I couldn’t afford the high end programmes. I was kicked out of that group for that reason. I was at rock bottom then and that’s when I found you.
I bought the ebook (couldn’t afford any extras) and read it hundreds of times. I watched one of your YouTube videos (or more) a night until it started sinking in. It was a eureka moment!! It wasn’t about getting him back, it was about me. I had to get better and shift my focus. At this point I ‘wrote him off’ and focused on the joy in my life, my children, my home, my job.
I shifted my focus from what I hadn’t got and what I had supposedly lost, to what I had. I started to count my blessings rather than focusing on my lack.
I concentrated on my masters and passed that with honours and then nailed my dream job as a hospice nurse. I quit begging him to come back and let him go, that was when the dynamic changed. He started gravitating back towards me mid year... we even went away on a spa break which was pretty hot! Again I was meeting my own needs with that and left happy with no expectations.
He started coming over more and I stayed present, enjoying his company in the moment and it was light, free and easy. Again no investment on my part as I was dating two other lovely guys which I was really enjoying. The outcome didn’t matter anymore.
Mid November he said he wanted me back. Wanted to come home. I’ve been really happy (and I’ve done a pretty great job in that respect) so felt no desperation to have him back. I’ve been keeping him at arms length to see if he’s serious, consistent, suffering from holiday singledom fever! I wanted to see what happened but at the same time kept soft and warm.
He’s been consistent but at the same time more and more desperate to be back in my life. He’s mentioned marriage since November a couple of times but last night he sat down on my sofa with my head in his hands. He told me he loves me, nobody else (he went out on a date and it felt ‘wrong’). He wants to marry me, grow old with me and he wants us to get a bigger house and have another baby. He was crying which he’s never done before. It was desperate urgency on his part. He said he will marry me
but needs to speak to my dad first.
He’s been great to be fair, he’s recognised he can’t keep bailing on his family and he organised counselling off of his own back which he started today. It went well.
I’m still pretty easy with everything and I’ve told him we’ll take each day as it comes. We’ll both end up where we’re meant to be.
I believe 9/10 our relationships don’t work out because we loose ourselves in the relationship. I could be wrong but it was certainly the case with me.
What I have taken from your teachings is that it’s not about getting a man or ‘getting your ex back’ in essence. If a woman joins you with that as her focus; I don’t think it’ll work our well at all. There’s a motive. The motive has to be YOU. If you find a perfect man after finding yourself then that’s the sugar coating.
In my case I’ve found that now I’m living the life that gives me meaning; I’m no longer trying to get fulfillment from a partner. As a result I feel happier that I’ve been in a decade. And look what happened!!
Thanks Kat ❤️"
Her former coach, who happens to be one of my copycats, didn't succeed in helping her even after paying $400 on her stuff and she wanted more so she told her to sell her belongings. Lucky for her (we can always see blessing in disguise in any situation), the episode forced her to find me early this year and by only paying $47 for my ebook she got this result by the end of the year!
Need I say more?
Only awakened people can wake you up.
That's the deepest thing any coach can teach their clients/students. And unless they're living it, they won't be able to teach it. And most people don't live their lives in the perpetual state of sweet surrender like that. It didn't come to me easily and immediately either so I'm not bragging. That was the hardest easiest thing I had to learn to master.
So in that light, I have just conducted a Goddess Interview as part of
the monthly membership titled "How To Get Him Back And Propose After He Broke Up With You" with me.
You won't want to miss this class especially if you made the same mistake she did: nagging, pushing, giving ultimatums, etc.... Sign up for this class only or month to month (this is the cheapest way to work closely and continuously with me). And I will send you the recording to listen to it.
You will learn from her the difference between my teachings and others' that she have come to know (including her former coach). What was the blind spot of her former coach so she couldn't give her the same result?
And to remind you, if you're now ready to jump in
Journey Inward, it's the best time to do it because currently it's still on sale for $60 off till January 5. Use coupon code: 60OFF. The effect of Journey Inward will be the same breakthrough that Gemma experienced that made quite a shift in the dynamic of her relationship with her
partner.
And don't miss my
Holiday Specials, they'll end on Jan 5 (at midnight PT). Get the programs you have always wanted and save significantly and some programs will automatically get you a FREE paid hotel stay in some of most exotic holiday destinations in the world.
And my next Feminine Magnetism Retreat at my celestial home will be June 27-30, 2019. Right now we have all seats taken for the Earliest Birds Specials that will give you $600 OFF as well as a complimentary vacation certificate mentioned above but sign up today because I'll change the prices tomorrow (will be $400 instead of $600 OFF). And this time we'll have one full day dedicated for a new important subject Overcoming Depression. And you can also
just come for this one-day workshop on June 30 if you can't come for the entire length of the retreat.
If you feel stuck about life, this retreat is just for you. It's unique and full-blown inspiring.
And last but not least, my course based on the ebook is now offering 15% OFF for 5 people so if you don't grab it today, I'm afraid it will be gone next week and you will never see this price ever again (scroll down to my live FB video and under it there is payment link and under it 2-monthly-payment plan).
If you're new to my teachings, you might not know that I'm unique in the niche because I don't regurgitate the prevalent wisdom on emotionally unavailable or commitment phobic men that is also the basic premise of
my best-selling ebook and with it my entire coaching practice. I have in fact revolutionized the dating niche by giving a completely unique take on the entire
"emotionally unavailable and commitment phobic" genre that is so totally different than the general understanding and generic advice given on the subject matter.
I have proven it beyond the shadow of a doubt, in most cases it's not the men who are the problems. It's the women.
Nobody else has taken that bold stance before. Everyone in the niche has been singing the same tune when it comes to this perception of EUM and commitment phobic men.
Perception? Yes, I said exactly that.
This is the Blind Spot of the relationship counseling industry the world over until Katarina Phang came into the picture.
The false perception is the problem. Unhealed mind perceives all kinds of things that aren't there (thus beware of the unhealed healers out there who will make your situation worse instead of better and this is why I'm the Last Resort). False perception leads to false diagnosis, which in turn leads to false solutions that don't address the real issue: i.e.
women's
lack of wisdom and knowledge on how men operate and how his commitment process unfolds.
So in light of the upcoming ecourse based on the ebook, this very topic will be the big grand opening of the course or the subject of the first week of the program. I will explain it to you at length why men don't think women do when it comes to relationship. They don't plan or anticipate it. And for most men their default mode is in fact "NOT READY."
Relationship is kinda falls onto his lap for a man. It develops naturally because it feels right. And women with the highest EQ will be the ones who "win this battle" as I have proven time and again with my results, unheard of in this business (and really unheard of, so if you hear this mentioned somewhere else, realize she's my copycat1 and you can let her know that you know).
Unless you understand this you will always lead with expectations (and expectations are attraction killers,
listen tot this class why) and as such your reaction will be disproportionate to the magnitude of the situation and instead of drawing him closer, you push him further away.
So I don't want you to miss this 15% off for the $799 course that spans 10 weeks, 2 hours each. Sign up today because you'll be better off to learn the principles that I teach from MYSELF (and my trained coaches).
Sign up here (scroll down a bit), you can choose one payment or 2 monthly installments. and add yourself to the group designated for the course
here.
See who my new coaches are on the bottom of this email. One of them will be your mentor in navigating the murky waters of dating in the online era and you'll get a follow-up 40 min session with them!!
Please also like, follow and check "see first" on
my page so you're always in the loop for quality content you won't find anywhere else.
And if you haven't been my free group group so please add yourself
here. We just started to have the new coaches have live class in the group. Melody and Dasha, our new coaches, just did it the past 2 weeks. So to listen to them please add yourself to the group.
Mind you, just being in my group you're on the highway toward personal transformation. My groups are never dull and yawn-inducing like most other more "feminine" and "safe" groups which have more moderators and admins than daily posts cause they have scarcity mentality. And that is why the educational value of my groups can't be found anywhere else and that is why Kat is on the top of the niche today!
