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It's getting warmer here in the castle and we're only less than 3 weeks away from our summer retreat at my celestial home in San Diego. I want to invite you to enjoy a weekend filled with soul nourishments in the paradise I call home.
You'll go home a new person with a new pair of glasses so you will perceive the world in a much more expanded way. That's my specialty and my genius. And you might get the ring you have always wanted as well since two alumnae of the 1st and 2nd retreat got engaged last and this year!
Now, a new client sent me this email as part of the 2-week email coaching with
the ebook (get it if you need definite diagnosis of your situations from the One and Only Man Whisperer/The Last Resort):
"I hear you. I agree that my response was ego lead, which is why I said "I see that by the way I expressed myself, I was giving off masculine energy, but how do I convey
that what he did was not ok in a high value, feminine way? How do I articulate a boundary on the rare times when I actually need to?"
He messaged me and we talked. He kept calling me to talk more. He's being wishy-washy on what he wants. He told me that he didn't do anything to disrespect our relationship the two weeks we weren't talking.
He doesn't seem to want to let me go, but he told me he feels a lot of emotional confusion after we interact. I agree that this relationship is a rebound. I want this relationship to last and I know that men will bend over backwards to treat a woman well if they are getting their needs met and the bond is
there. He's a great guy and he's maxed out emotionally right now. I want to lean back and stay in my feminine energy and I can recognize when I'm in my ego.
I would really like to know what your advice is regarding boundaries. On the **rare** occasion I need to enforce one, I'd like advice on what to say. I feel that him disappearing for two weeks without explanation when he refers to me as his gf is not acceptable. Part of
me thinks I'm being stupid for wanting to take him back. If we had not agreed to be exclusive, it wouldn't be as big a deal, I'd just let another guy get more of my attention. But we were exclusive.
And he told me that he felt that I ghosted him because I didn't call him after he told me that he liked another girl, would call me the next day (but didn't), hung up on me, left a message the next day that he needed to focus on his kids and court case, and then ignored my message for two weeks. Why would I call him- that seems like a pretty
clear indicator that he didn't want to talk to me.
So I gave him space, and then he tells me I ghosted him too? I feel like his attitude about that is manipulative. After six days, I set up a dating profile, but I haven't gone on any dates yet. He knows that I started moving on when he was gone, but doesn't specifically know I have profiles up.
I will re-read your ebook again. I'm willing to do the work, but based on my budget I can likely only take one or two classes and the rebound one seems most important right now- unless you think last week's
class on communication is more important.
Thank you for your time."
How many of you sent a guy a long email or text message recounting the things you wish him he had done and making him wrong for not
meeting your expectations?
You've been dealing with common situations with men the
very low EQ way before you found me. And following the advice of some relationships "experts" on line hasn't helped you either. I just hope you haven't wasted thousands of dollars like some who later found me have done! (Be very cautious of
these lightweight pretenders whose only interest is your wallet).
And you know what, I teach the total opposite of what these coaches teach.
And it works....
I'm the only coach in the world that produces 6 engagements/month and actually consistently post the testimonials of them all on
my page.
So do you know what I responded?
It will shock you because my stuff is so extremely counter intuitive. I said,
"You don’t. You take care of yourself without an apology which includes dating other guys so you're not ahead
of him emotionally which is your situation and this is why you get pushy and annoying because you always feel slighted. That’s what a low EQ nag is. Mirror him, that’s what you do and zip that mouth."
It's the highest TRUTH.
It's not easy to understand, granted, hence I am the Last Resort because when you come to me my job isn't to convert you but because you're ready for the HIGHEST TRUTH however painful that may be. Your mind has opened up for possibilities.
Thanks to this powerful message I bring, my page has been picked to have the privilege of fan subscriptions. That's a tacit proclamation that Katarina Phang is Facebook's important partner in creating high quality content that will make people stay on their platform. Our audience is very highly engaged and our followers are extremely loyal because they see results even through my free stuff in their relationships/lives.
And in the fan subscriptions we conducted a live class last week "When To Speak Up and How To Communicate In A Way that He Can Listen to and Make Him Love You Even More" in which I laid out what you need to do FIRST before resorting to talking for every little situation that upsets you.
That thing is ENERGY. Communicate with your energy before words! And that includes actions or lack thereof. Nobody else in the juggernaut knows what this even means!
Needless to say, you'll be so much wiser and smarter when you listen to the first 4 hours of teachings from 3 previous classes so sign up below if you are interested in listening to that class and the previous 2 classes (and you can cancel anytime):
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And you know what, this week we have 2 classes!!!! The next one will be tomorrow Thursday at 5 pm EST with me discussing Financial Sharing, Expectations and Reality and Saturday at 5 pm EST with coach Dasha discussing Abandonment, Fears, Anxiety and A Journey To True Inner Healing.
The more of you sign up the more you will see us every week. And when we get to a few hundred members you'll see us every day!
Here's the lis of the classes you can listen to upon signing up:
1. Attachment and How It Messes Up Everything, 60 mins
2. How Emotional Abuse Happens In Relationship and How to Stop It, 90 mins
3. When To Speak Up and How To Communicate In A Way that He Can Listen to and Make Him Love You Even More, 90 mins
And here are the upcoming classes:
4. Financial Sharing in Dating and Relationship, the Ideal and Reality of it, June 12
5. Abandonment, Fears, Anxiety and A Journey to True Inner Healing, June 15
6. The Power of Thoughts with Coach Chiemeri, June 23
7. When Is Relationship Exclusive with Coach Tricia, July 2
8. What Is Cheating and How Cheating Happens, July 7
9. How to Move On after a Breakup, even When You still Want Him Back, July 14
It's really the most affordable way to work close with me and my coaches in the tradition of 6 engagements/month and this kind of offer isn't available anywhere else and certainly not from a coach with such high success rates, only $99/month and you can cancel anytime
Bring all your relationship and life issues and we'll help you make sense of them. Whatever your relationship or life issue you have we can help you find solutions to them the most emotionally intelligent way!!