Happy first of October!! Wow, only 3 months left for 2019.
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Last Sunday, we wrapped up the 3-day workshop on
How to Date and Love Meditatively. They'll be soon uploaded to your members page and I definitely think this workshop needs to be in your collection if a healthy relationship and emotional life in general is what you're after. So you can sign up
here and start listening to the 4.5 hours of enlightening classes not being taught anywhere else by anybody else.
What I teach is extremely counter intuitive. You wouldn't have guessed/thought it so best is to invest in your own personal growth and reap the rewards.
In the class, when we were dissecting how to fight meditatively, one of the ladies asked, "If we don't repress our anger, how are we going to improve our relationship?"
Some parts of my teachings can be very confusing because I teach non reactivity as well as non repression. To the average mind this sounds contradictory.
And as I always tell you, I don't repress anything either. If I want to lash out I lash out at Joe. If I feel annoyed I express that annoyance with no problem.
The difference is
I get angry at Joe about 3 times a year (how often do you get angry at your partner?) so I allow myself to be anything when I'm angry. I have no issue with anger or any emotions because I embrace them so fully and totally and because I embrace them the minute they leave my system I'm fine with the universe once
again.
The whole process of getting angry and getting over my anger only lasts about 5 minutes at the most.
Then I die to that episode, never brought that up again till new episode that prompts my anger happens again.
And you know, sometimes anger is a necessary response. Anger is only bad when it's chronic and ruling your consciousness. And repression certainly won't make you less angry.
Can you compare that to your own experience of anger that causes the recurring arguments and heated lingering conflicts with your partner?
To listen to the entire explanation of this seemingly contradictory thing that will blow your mind away, please sign up for the
3-day Workshop and start practicing watchfulness as taught in the classes.
Conditioning. This conditioning creates the structure of the ego/self. Everything is interpreted and projected out of that structure.
Hence, people who have transcended their conditioning are empty inside. They no longer project. It takes
stories of the I to project. When there is no more story of the I, the mind becomes a mirror. It only reflects. It has no material of its own to project. It reflects back all the materials it
receives to its owners/projectors.
This self-knowledge is the peak of Self-Mastery. It is what enlightenment is all about.
The last class thus explains how shadow projection takes place. And how a centered person is like a well-rounded ball. There is no more chip and dent on the surface of the ball.
The chips and dents are the denied aspects of our humanity, thus they're called the shadow. They get projected outside till they are fully reintegrated.
On another note, we'll start our
Coach Certification Program next week. And I'm going to evaluate my future coaches on this understanding of perception and projection by presenting some cases some women face in their relationships they need to provide solutions to.
Most coaches don't have a clue about these 2 aspects of the ego/mind hence their capacity to help their clients is extremely limited. You can't solve a problem from the mind level that causes it. Most coaches are exactly of the same level of awareness as you are hence they can't really help you.
There is no more discount after September but I give one person a dispensation. Respond to this email if you want to talk to me about this rare opportunity.
I'm going to be in London and Ireland this month with my father. I haven't booked our tickets yet because we're still waiting for my Dad's Irish visa but tentatively I'll be in London October 10-17 and Ireland Oct 17-29.
I have one spot in London (or Windsor) and one spot in Dublin for my One-Day Intensive. It takes around 7 hours of private coaching with me including breakfast and lunch in which I will lay out an action plan for you to take so you can transcend whatever situation(s) you're facing in your life and relationship.
The investment is $3,500. So if you need to pick my heart and brain, respond to this email. Let's talk.
Then I'll fly to Indonesia to visit my family before
my Bali retreat on Nov 6-10.
You really don't want to let 2019 pass by without really paving the foundation for significant growth for next year and Bali retreat will just do that.
I have no doubt about it.
Take, for example, Conny's email to me today. She flew all the way from Germany to be at
my home retreat last June and she's so elated that she did.
"Hi my dear Kat,
apologies for not responding earlier to your emails!
I hope you doing well and the troubles with homepage and all that are solved. Your touching Newsletter about that made me feel good. Not because you were having troubles but shared struggles are half struggles as we say in German.
I waited so long to feedback my experiences at the retreat and process after as I hoped to come up with good news (and I’m really bad in writing emails too ;) ).
But when I start I do it excessively, LONG TEXT ALLERT, haha.
First of all I’d like to thank you for the awesome time at your place. You don’t promise too much in your promotions for it.
It’s been mind-blowing and out of this world, a truly magical experience. Thanks to you but also the other ladies of our small group and their feedback too.
I came back to Germany feeling renewed after this journey which was one of the most important ones of my life so far. Never invested so much in myself before and absolutely happy I did!
Also a big shout out to Joey who was so supportingly caring, keeping in mind all the Ladies' needs pushing and pulling on him lol!
Please tell him greetings from me. You two been lovely hosts in this very private setting, feeling like friends.
When I told a friend, who was very critical about spending so much money for a workshop before, she said, "Wow that sounds like something that money can buy, I’m glad you did that!“
I highly recommend your retreats to all the Ladies who follow you.
Meeting in person was important for me to know where exactly I’m standing. The audios and long distance advice wasn’t enough, I needed to get a real feeling for digging deeper into what’s going on.
At the retreat I learned I’m quite good in some parts, quite in neuroses zone in others.
Let me share what happened in the meanwhile and how the learnings of the retreat helped me.
Unfortunately things with work got even more messed up when I came back.
Like I assumed this guy/company owner cancelled our agreement so I was and still am out of work enough for living.
That, in combination with the struggles I’ve had the months before, threw me deep in neurosis zone. Somehow I couldn’t do much for weeks besides in a way enjoying the summer and mingle with friends to not slip into a proper depression.
There’s even been a time when the tax office locked my bank account because they wanted the taxes of 3 years solid, thousands of Euros, of course I couldn’t pay.
Like it always is, if things are bad there’s always a way it can get worse….
Needed to take out a loan and that’s when, funny enough, the way I’ve seen things began to brighten up.
Shortly I doubted my decision to come to California as I would’ve been able to pay at least a part of the tax loan if I didn't.
But said to myself "No, I did it for a reason and it helped me big time, I trust my gut feeling and it was right!“
My bank took good care of the concern and my consultant even said my credit score is really good so that’s no problem at all. I was like "Really?? I feel like I’m on the financial edge all the time."
Well, looks like I can’t be that bad just because I don’t fit well in every place, haha.
Luckily, I’ve had a booking from adidas in between that saved my ass for now but just in short terms. They valued my work a lot, complementing and thanking me for the support many times.
Guess is the Universe hinted I’m at a high level with my works and need to keep it up. This other company just wasn’t on that level…
Really want to value myself better, hard to break through the pattern of being hard to myself but getting closer.
Your teachings helped me keeping mental sanity: Surrender, let the river carry me and look for a way out. Silencing thoughts or at least watching them without attachment. Silence the doer but doing what’s necessary. Getting in touch with my Genius Zone, forgiving myself when I fail. Meditation when feeling lousy and much more.
The other ladies in the retreat taught me how obviously thoughts can change my vibration. I’m taking good care of that now, at least when realizing. That hint was overly precious to me.
Overall I’m more open when being with other people thanks to that and show my sunny side more, that feels so lovely and my friends love it too!
In regards to love, nothing relevant so far besides I feel the shifts in myself FINALLY.
When I came back home I switched off my Tinder as I ran on a low frequency. Anyway, had 3 guys in my rotation left.
Two of them are fuckboys/players but VERY handsome, sexy and smart.
But the 3rd one raised the bar and made those players loose. Even though I’m not interested in him romantically and lost sexual attraction on him too, he finally opened my eyes what a real man is supposed to do.
Consistent, caring, cooking, bringing me little things each time we met. Deep conversation, nice activities together and not afraid to share, even though he's rebounding hard.
Now I was ready for seeing that. Some months ago I wouldn't.
Rotation, rotation, rotation plus inner work is the best therapy. ;)
Now I know what I’m looking for. With those players I’ve been on the right track but they’ve been lacking and behaving lousy too.
I want both, the handsome and cool as well as the giving masculine.
Thinking back it’s a brand-new quality of man I’m attracting now. They’re much more masculine than ever. Of course I’m having trouble to adjust to that lol.
I’ll never be the super demure type who can be with an alpha alpha but there is still room to tone down my masculine, intimidating side when it comes to love.
Taking it step by step, forgiving myself when slipping but confess I can’t wait to get there...
Still struggling with softening boundaries while not falling into the doormat trap. Swinging to one way or another, trying to get to the sane middle. And still talk too much, aaarrgghh, hahahah.
Will go back on Tinder the next days and see what happens…
Reading my retreat notes as well as to the classes I bought and the freebies over and over.
It rattles me, turning around my whole world and view.
Also learned being emotionally available isn’t just not thinking about being emotionally unavailable anymore.
It’s hard work, unlearning 42 years of habits isn’t easy but I’ll make it, I swear :).
Checking on myself all the time. Where do I flake, withdraw, escape, shut down, play around, not telling my truth and all that shit?
I’m a work in progress like all of us and honor wherever I am in the journey as you always say.
Coming a long way before and after I found you, getting closer to my essence and best self each day.
At least I’ve had loads of time to study your teaching after coming back from the retreat and did that like crazy.
I’m convinced it’s been the right time to come over. Been drawn to this for a year, there’s always a reason behind such intuition.
Thank you so much for your work. Believe in you and your intention of making the world a better place with it.
I’ll definitely stick with you. Right now I can’t buy anything but plan to take a new course or sign up for the fan subscriptions when possible.
Or save for coming to another retreat?
It’s been sooo good, definitely will come to another one at a nice sunny beach.
And sorry for the long email ;P
Hugs and kiss,
Conny"
And last but not least, talking about the fan subscriptions, I'll show up tomorrow for our regular satsang/class at 2 pm EST. With just $99/month -and you can cancel anytime- you can lap up the entire library of 38 hours of most enlightening content Get ready with your questions tomorrow and I will dissect them for you.
And then on Saturday Coach Dasha will be back at 5.30 pm EST (so this week 2 classes!) with a new subject that will blow your mind away: "How to Deepen and Inspire Emotional Intimacy."
Need I say more about the transformational force of all my live events? Respond to this email if you want to talk about Bali retreat and what bonuses/discounts you can get for one person only. So hurry!
Sign up today and stay for 3 months starting September or October and you can claim a bonus of my best-selling
monthly audio classes including the super hit
how to be high value and easy to lose class valued at $107. And not only that you'll get another
bonus which is the satsang also valued at $107 in the library of the fan subscriptions when you are still a member when we reach 151 members (currently we're between #125-129).
You'll get smarter and wiser with every class, your EUM or any guy who finds you attractive will melt in your divine feminine presence.
Here's list of topics of Satsang you can watch upon signing up (over 36.5 hours, yes 36.5 hours!!!!):
1. Attachment and How It Messes Up Everything, 60 mins
2. How Emotional Abuse Happens In Relationship and How to Stop It, 90 mins
3. When To Speak Up and How To Communicate In A Way that He Can Listen to and Make Him Love You Even More, 90 mins4. Financial Sharing in Dating and Relationship, the Ideal and Reality of it, 60 mins
5. Trusting Yourself and Your Intuition, 80 mins
6. Abandonment, Fears, Anxiety and A Journey to True Inner Healing, 80 mins
7. What Is Cheating and How Cheating Happens and how to cheat-proof your relationship, 80 mins
8. Abandonment, Fears, Anxiety and A Journey to True Inner Healing part 2 with coach Dasha, 90 mins
9. How to Cultivate Emotional Attraction with Your EUM/Guy, 90 mins
10. Goddess Interview: Chiemeri, The Power of Thoughts, 60 mins
11. How to Create Magnetic Allure Thru Sex and Sensuality with coach Dasha, 140 mins!!
12. When Is Relationship Exclusive and What to Do When You're An Exclusive with A Guy Who Doesn't Act Like a Boyfriend, 90 mins
13. How to Create Magnetic Allure Thru Sex and Sensuality part 2 with coach Dasha, 80 mins!!
14. Seven Moves to Charm, Entice and Captivate your Man without Leaning Forward, 140 mins!!
15. How to Move On after a Breakup, And Attract Him Back in The Process If That's What You Want, 100 mins
16. How to Lean Back and Be High Value Even When You Feel He's Friend Zoning You, 60 mins
17. How to Create and Build Solid Trust in a Relationship with Coach Dasha, 90 mins
18. Will Leaning Back Work Now After Leaning Forward for 10 Years?, 90 mins
19. How to Merge Two Families and Handle Conflicts with His Kids, 90 mins
20. How to Forget and Forgive After He Cheated On You or Should You, 90 mins
21. How to Survive and Thrive After A difficult Break Up with Coach Dasha, 90 mins
22. Why Anxiety is An Attraction Killer that Causes Him to Become "Emotionally Unavailable" and How to Self-Sooth When You're Anxious, 90 mins
23. How to Handle Your Triggers and Not to Walk On Eggshells with Your Guy/Partner, 90 mins
24. How to Successfully Navigate Conflict and Highly Charged Situations with Coach Dasha, 80 mins
25. How and Why Your Sob Stories Make Your Relationship So Rocky, 90 mins
Again, only $99/month and you can cancel anytime. No down payment of $2,000 and $500/month some vanity/newbies coaches with no credentials twist your arm to pay. It's like therapy with a Buddha for less than $10/hour. There is simply NO EQUIVALENCE out there in terms of QUALITY, RESULTS and AFFORDABILITY. It's so DIRT CHEAP, ...seriously sign up!!
Love,
