Why I don't Think of Boundaries When Dealing With People

Published: Mon, 12/02/19

Hi ,

A centered person doesn't operate from a place of defensiveness or fear. People using you isn't the first thing that comes to mind when you interact with others when you don't have stories about being violated or being a victim.

At the same time a centered person isn't projecting their desire, expectations and wishful thinking on other people as well.

Their mind stays put where the moment is, not going backward to the past or forward to the future.

They just see things in a direct way unintruded by any story of the I, one way or the other. And they respond accordingly moment to moment based on their direct feelings as they arise in the moment.

This is why you never hear me tell you to set boundaries. That is simply not something that crosses my mind very often. I am a quiet spaciousness inside so I don't project whatever preoccupations I have cause I have none, generally speaking.

Quite the opposite I teach you to soften your boundaries.

Many think that softening of boundaries mean you will become a doormat. Because it's the opposite of setting of boundaries in their mind.

Softening of boundaries isn't about having no boundaries whatsoever. It's all about transcending your triggers so you very rarely perceive insults and slights which means you're more and more well-rounded as you react less and less to other people's speech and actions or lack thereof.

So it's not what you think it is. And trust my teachings are unconventional and very counter intuitive so a lot of times your assumptions are off and instead of reviewing my principles you are just projecting your own unresolved issues.

So before opining about what softening of boundaries is all about, I strongly recommend you to listen to the class and it might be the key on why your relationship can't go a distance. Because you have too many boundaries and as such the more boundaries you have the more likely they get violated.

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How To Soften Your Boundaries So You Become Non Reactive And Irresistible

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Setting so many boundaries is a reflection of your needs to control and, thus, is a reflection of your capacity or lack thereof to be vulnerable. Unless you are vulnerable and surrendering to the process your relationship will never deepen and the only way for a masculine man to bond with you and move the relationship forward is when you are being vulnerable.

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3. When To Speak Up and How To Communicate In A Way that He Can Listen to and Make Him Love You Even More, 90 mins4. Financial Sharing in Dating and Relationship, the Ideal and Reality of it, 60 mins

5. Trusting Yourself and Your Intuition, 80 mins

6. Abandonment, Fears, Anxiety and A Journey to True Inner Healing, 80 mins

7. What Is Cheating and How Cheating Happens and how to cheat-proof your relationship, 80 mins

8. Abandonment, Fears, Anxiety and A Journey to True Inner Healing part 2 with coach Dasha, 90 mins

9. How to Cultivate Emotional Attraction with Your EUM/Guy, 90 mins

10. Goddess Interview: Chiemeri, The Power of Thoughts, 60 mins

11. How to Create Magnetic Allure Thru Sex and Sensuality with coach Dasha, 140 mins!!

12. When Is Relationship Exclusive and What to Do When You're An Exclusive with A Guy Who Doesn't Act Like a Boyfriend, 90 mins

13. How to Create Magnetic Allure Thru Sex and Sensuality part 2 with coach Dasha, 80 mins!!

14. Seven Moves to Charm, Entice and Captivate your Man without Leaning Forward, 140 mins!!

15. How to Move On after a Breakup, And Attract Him Back in The Process If That's What You Want, 100 mins

16. How to Lean Back and Be High Value Even When You Feel He's Friend Zoning You, 60 mins

17. How to Create and Build Solid Trust in a Relationship with Coach Dasha, 90 mins

18. Will Leaning Back Work Now After Leaning Forward for 10 Years?, 90 mins

19. How to Merge Two Families and Handle Conflicts with His Kids, 90 mins

20. How to Forget and Forgive After He Cheated On You or Should You, 90 mins

21. How to Survive and Thrive After A difficult Break Up with Coach Dasha, 90 mins

22. Why Anxiety is An Attraction Killer that Causes Him to Become "Emotionally Unavailable" and How to Self-Sooth When You're Anxious, 90 mins

23. How to Handle Your Triggers and Not to Walk On Eggshells with Your Guy/Partner, 90 mins

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25. How and Why Your Sob Stories Make Your Relationship So Rocky, 90 min

26. What Is Being A Witness/Observer of All Phenomena or Inner Experiences is All About, 100 mins

27. How to Deepen and Inspire Emotional Intimacy, 70 mins

28. Why Relationship Issues Are the Reflection of Your Issues with Yourself, 70 mins

29. Can I still Save My Marriage/Relationship When My Partner Doubts Me?, 60 mins

30. How to Melt Any Man's Resistance, 80 mins

31. How Setting So Many Boundaries and Show Up A Diva Will Land You A Beta Man, 70 mins

32. What Is Vulnerability and What Vulnerability Looks Like in Dating and Relationship, 60 mins

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Love,

Katarina