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Before we start, I'd like to remind you of the latest FREEBIES for you: 2 FREE CLASSES that I conducted on the last full moon of the decade 10 days ago: Why Resisting Rotation Shows Your Poor Understanding of What Works with Men and Last Full Moon of the Decade's Therapy: Why You Don't Have to React on Every Feeling that Arises.

 

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Today at 6 pm EST, I'll be teaching a subject that might also interest you in my Coach Certification Program: The Blind Spot of Dating/Relationship Coaching.  If you have tried this coach or that coach or this method or that method with only mediocre results it's because the diagnosis on your situations is not accurate.

 

These days every one teaches feminine energy and leaning back (use coupon code 50OFF for the hit Leaning Back Workshop till Jan 5).  Theoretically it's very simple and most coaches get the lingo right: feminine is about being, not doing.  Don't initiate, don't lead, don't pursue but be passive and receptive.

 

So they cover the basics and once in a while they do give you the results you want when there is no complication in the dating process but more often than not, dating and relating are more complex than the sanitized "how to get a guy through leaning back."

 

A lot of times it involves your and his unresolved issues/wounds and unmet expectations and the clash of perceptions that are colored by those unresolved issues as well as projections that ensue between the two parties in the relating. These are the aspects of coaching that most coaches are not capable of transcending and solving because they simply aren't evolved enough to deal with the deeper issues that dating and relationship stir in people (including in themselves).

 

It's like asking for advice from your girl friends.  Their response is generally "you deserve better," "run for the hills!" "set your boundaries so he respects you," "dump him!," "if he loves you he'll do what you want/ask for/he'll make you happy," "you want a man who makes you feel good instead of bad about yourself."

 

They believe the problems are the men that cause those feelings in their clients/the women.

 

Naturally, there is no much anyone can do when the verdict is the problems are out there not "in here."

 

Imagine the feeling of being stuck cause you are always compelled to exert yourself to make others (your partner) conform to your personal guidelines of do's and don'ts on how to handle your delicate feelings.

 

These coaches exactly offer you that, hence they aren't particularly helpful cause you really have no control upon other people but yourself.  

 

So their advice generally revolves around how to express your feelings and communicate in a way that these men can fix their behaviors that cause all these stirred painful emotions.  Or how to adopt strategies to make him see how wrong he has been.  Or how to show up a diva so a man doesn't take advantage of you cause "trust me men love women who can say no and stand up for themselves and who know how to put men in their places."

 

They assume whatever coming out a woman's mouth is what actually happens objectively.  If she perceives abusive behavior it's because he's truly abusive no matter what she has done or how she shows up that contributes to that toxic dynamics. If she perceives lack of commitment, he's truly a player and "emotionally unavailable."  If she perceives flakiness, it's truly because he doesn't respect her and he's really not that into her.  If she's offended by what he says it's because he's a jerk who doesn't respect women, and so forth, etc.

 

So their general advice will be "move on till you find a guy who's perfect in every way cause a good man won't do any of those things you perceive that make you feel less than."

 

And sure enough, such men don't exist (the men who are up to their "standards" are generally of the beta type with no back bone of their own).

 

Cause the problem isn't men or even out there.  The problem is in here (pointing to chest).

 

And because of this misdiagnosis very few coaches out there really provide lasting solutions to any relationship issue.  Their methods work for a little bit till the going gets tough, i.e. till they can't navigate the murky waters of perceptions and projections that are at the center of every relating and relationship.

 

If the only advice any coach can give you is to "fix externalities" and "walk away" if the fixing doesn't work, no surprise that you will never confront yourself and you shall never heal the very things that make relationship with him or any particular guy so hard.

 

And because they're never confronted and healed, they will continue to haunt you and follow you like a shadow.

 

Then you'll end up with the same problems, different days and men.

 

And will you keep running away searching for the holy grail of relationship?

 

Good luck with that.

 

I'm passionate about spreading this ultimate knowledge very few so-called "experts" get so we can improve the dire state of relationship coaching/counseling worldwide.  If you're intrigued, respond to this email so I can give you 20 min Skype to answer your questions about this life-changing program that might just what you need in both your personal or professional lives.

 

 

And if you're not ready for this challenge cause you want to work on your own mindset first to be successful in dating and relationship on a personal level before coaching others to do so, I definitely understand and agree with you!

 

You can only teach what you own and practice.  So by all means EMBODY first everything that I teach that is beyond the shadow of a doubt will make you a Goddess that men worship in every relationship.  It's not because you're a DIVA that knows how to "put men in their places" but because you possess one quality only enlightened beings possess: EMOTIONAL FREEDOM.

 

Emotional freedom is the sense of unconditional well-being no matter how the external world is.  Don't you just want to know the way toward that end?

 

Then in that case my fan subscriptions is the answer you've been looking for.

 

In our 36th satsang: How to Cultivate Silence and Aloneness So You can Be Great At Relationship last Wednesday I revealed the HOW and WHY you will stand out from the rest when it comes to men.  I truly love that class because nobody else in the business is really aware enough to even talk about it.

 

There are 3 aspects of this 90-minute class that makes it a pure gem and will really help you toward that end:

 

1. Embracing of opposites is what makes you whole and well-rounded. The challenge is to embrace both of your left brain and right brain, left wing and right wing perspectives. With my teachings you will not be trapped in the 2D polarity which is to become a doormat (who attracts abusers) nor a diva (who attracts beta male) but somewhere in the middle who attracts and inspires emotionally healthy men.

 

2. Understanding how people (your guy/EUM/partner) negatively perceive you will make you see how your perception of others is often purely subjective as well. This understanding and realization will stop you from getting so violently triggered and thus over reacting. This situation of unmatched expectations by both sides (at different or same times) that is the source of all conflicts and toxicity is very common in dating and relationship.

 

3. The mind will always instigate to prolong conflicts and problems. Dying to the past is the one skill that isn't being taught out there by any dating/relationship coach who is actually teaching you to do exactly that prolonging of conflicts and problems by their generic advice of "setting boundaries." These coaches need inner work themselves cause all their advices focus on fixing externalities instead of looking for the hidden lesson/flip side of every situation that brings about real transformation.

 

This class also addresses the longing and emptiness during a breakup situation, what cause and how to deal with it. Those of you who are in a breakup situation will find this class extremely soothing and therapeutic.

 

BE STUCK NO MORE. Being stuck is a sign of you operating from the egoic mode of consciousness. Get out of it and only awakened beings can teach you how.

 

Sign up for this soul-nourishing, ego-diminishing and, thus, EQ-enhancing fan subscriptions and and enjoy a total of 53.5 hour of enlightening and soothing content you won't find anwyhere else on the face of the planet earth and enjoy weekly satsang with the One and Only Man Whisperer/Last Resort.

 

And next Wednesday at 2 pm EST I will be back answering your questions and giving you the miraculous coaching that has given birth to 267 engagements the last 6 years so sign up today and enjoy the many benefits of the fan subscriptions.

 

You will enjoy tremendous growth you won't get to experience otherwise (look at the end of this email for the topic of each class).

 

 

Last year we ended the year with 60 engagements, this year we're at engagement #63 already which was reported a few days ago!!  (please let me know if you got engaged this year so I can celebrate it with you!) and I'm sure we'll continue the growth and progression in the years to come.

 

Most of my programs are very affordable compared to the definite RESULTS you will get.  Most of my successful clients spend less than $200 for the happy relationships they're in right now.  But many of you benefit so much from my teachings that continuous transformations with me is definitely very appealing and attractive to you since my teachings reach into every aspect of life beyond men and romance.