Hi ,
You're probably thinking out loud...God, I want this Holiday Season to end already! Just one after another, right?
Yup, December can be a real tough month to go through because most important Holidays happen around this month. And
interestingly, important life events often take place during this time as well: engagements and, sadly, breakups.
If you are just single this month is a reminder of what you don't have in life. I remember four Holidays after my breakup that I wasn't looking forward to. I avoided the Christmas carols at all cost cause they were too painful to hear for
me.
But it doesn't have to be this way. There are always things to be grateful about. After my awakening I live everyday with a childlike sense of
curiosity. It's what Zen calls the beginner's mind. A beginner's mind is always excited and fresh and it doesn't anticipate or expects. It just wonders what today has in store for me and it must be great!
Even if it's not great strictly speaking but it's still great for the experience and the lesson it brings.
Awakening brings such clarity about the nature of the mind, thoughts, feelings and the ego. You are no longer enslaved by them. You can pick and choose the thoughts that cross your mental space and you see them as creatures of their own. They're not a part of you. They are just part of the human conditions -biology, if you like- and they're nothing
personal.
There is no one behind them.
What a weird concept that is, isn't it?
But it's astounding what it does to the mind. The mind becomes so spacious and
unconstricted and so very free from anxiety. It doesn't dwell or mull unnecessarily. It's not infected with guilt, resentment, regret or shame. Every movement in your mental space is just an experience devoid of any inherent meaning other than what you give to it.
That's where great creation and creativity takes place. Though petty thoughts happen anyway, you
also have a greater power to shut it down when you don't need it by letting those thought fade away. Your mind is mostly quiet and when you choose to think, it's a creative thought process and you're fully aware of it. And it's all very effortless, without, as I said, anxiety nor resistance.
You almost can see your mind unfolding and you have no control of it, yet at the same
time you're not out of control. You are just watching it. Everyday I am amazed at how much *I* create and produce. But it's not really me. I don't feel I do anything that exerts any effort on my part. I'm just a medium. These things happen through me cause I am plugged in to the Source.
This is what liberation is all about. Nothing is so very
extraordinary -though the experience of such (no) mind is in itself extraordinary cause it's rare that anyone can attain that stage.
In this state of being, you can't be hurt because *you* don't exist. What you think or believe as *you* is only an amalgamation of concepts and ideas you are programmed to cling to and identify with all your life. In the no mind stage, all
those concepts and ideas fall away. They are losing their grip over you.
“Why are you unhappy? Because 99.9 percent of everything you think, and of
everything you do, is for yourself—and there isn’t one.” ― Wei Wu We
So, Merry Christmas (or whatever Holiday you're celebrating) and look forward to the New Year...oh no, look forward even for today, for the blues or whatever that might transpire every minute of your day. Just don't anticipate it. Live in the moment, which means live without anticipation and expectations of what might happen.
You might be surprised.
To learn more about what I said above, please sign up for the new cycle of Journey
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Love,
Katarina
PS: Oh last but not least, I'd like to introduce something called Obsession Phrases. If you have invested in my teaching you might want to check it out:
Obsession
Phrases
