Hi ,
A reader of my ebook Linda just got married three days
ago. Here's her story. What you can learn from her is knowing when to walk away and how to walk away with dignity.
In fact another
reader, Karina just did it. And you know what happened?
He claimed her! Yup, he did cause he couldn't imagine a life without her.
She shared: "Well, Katarina....this froggy is BOILED. My EUM that I have been dating for the last 10 months finally, FINALLY claimed me. It's actually been 10 days but I waited to see if it was real lol, if he
wasn't gonna try and back out at the last minute but...nope. Here we are. And in fact this past weekend, he took me to his mom's house 5 hours away where I met his step dad, father, brother, brother's girlfriend, uncle, aunt, and numerous cousins all while attending a family birthday party.
Ten days ago, I had had ENOUGH. Realizing that my complicated non-relationship with him was holding me back from finding abundance elsewhere, this
time I meant it. I was prepared to miss him and suffer for the better opportunities that I was confident awaited me on the other side.
I am not sure if it was my energy shift or what, but I let him know how I felt, wished him all the best with love and light, and carried on my life. I was on a date, had a great time, and on the way home FINALLY checked my phone. Six missed calls and a million messages. EUM was in an utter panic, wanting to
see me right then and "talk."
I calmly said no, that he needed to stop this pattern. Long story short - he INSISTED on seeing me the next day and said that we love each other, and we've been dating for ten months, and he couldn't imagine his life without me. I was not convinced, I have heard similar things before...but he said he was ready, that even though we were both scared and vulnerable we can make it work.
Instead of feeling over the moon happy, I felt trepidation. What changed? How could he be ready NOW? I know he had a rotation as I did too...but in my feminine energy i just sat back and decided to see how it would unfold. He now calls me his girlfriend, introduced me as such to everyone, said we are exclusive, text our mutual friends to tell them the news (they all said "finally" lol). All him. All his idea. All actions.
Later after talking he told me he expunged his phone of exes and randoms, deleted all dating profiles, and I agreed to do the same.
Sooooo...we shall see what happens. Thank you Kat and all the ladies who gave me such great advice and energy. I think without Kat's teachings I would have panicked a million times over, acted super masculine, and probably completely ruined this. And now more than ever I am still using all the
techniques; I lean back, mirror, am non-reactive, no expectations. I am just gonna do my best to enjoy the ride, no matter how long or short lived it may be. I still have lots of inner work to do and I can always learn from this. "
The lesson is when you have done the right things and when you know what you truly bring to the table as a high-value woman, you will easily walk away from a relationship that doesn't serve you anymore. And
all it's done with drama and heartache but tons of dignity that will make him long for you even more.
My ebook (and my blog too of course) is a start to know what constitutes
"the right things" and "high value." In a nutshell: leaning back, softened boundaries (non-reactivity), being process oriented instead of goal oriented, letting a relationship unfold organically without strategizing.
If you consistently do those things, he CAN'T not fall in love with you.
Many get if after reading is a few times. But they're
hard to do with your old mindset of go-getting and being assertive (masculine energy).
That's why many others will take a while to really grasp all I teach and undo their old programming so they sign up to one or all of my programs, often repeatedly
for the therapeutic values they bring.
If you are one of those who really want to delve deeper into my method and make it a permanent fixture into your personality, I have great news. This coming January 24, the new cycle 6 of my hit program Journey Inward will launch with two totally new subjects: Shadow Work and Unity Consciousness.
The Journey Inward: The First Defining Steps Toward Feminine Magnetism
Why should you take this course?
Because it's the very foundation of Feminine Magnetism. This program will create a new mesmerizing you who vibrates from a higher level of frequency. And if you fall into one or more of these situations, then you can't afford to lose this program:
1. If you have just recently had a relationship breakup. You
need tools and support to move on with your life whether or not you want your ex back. I have reunited women with their exes on the virtue of moving on. So if you still want that possibility you need to learn how to let go and move on. Moving on is a very attractive energy. Like leaning back, it causes space for personal growth and reconnection.
2. If you are currently dating one or a few men and you
need the tools, support and inspiration to help you lean back and tame your anxiety. If you don't know how to lean back, you don't know how to attract a man and keep the attraction alive period.
3. If you are in a stagnant or troubled relationship in which he's pulling away, not stepping up or not showing you the affection and efforts he used to or you fight and argue most of the time. You need the inner shift to
inspire him to become your Prince Charming again.
4. If you are single and have been single for a while and trapped in a rut of singledom and aren't too happy about it. You need the program that can awaken your inner Goddess and become more magnetic to guys.
5. If you are depressed and feeling stuck in a rut in every aspect of life: career, money,
relationship. This might be something you need before going on medications or to supplement your medications. (My client Rinna has been totally off the antidepressant after on it for eight years after attending this program!)
The Journey Inward: The
First Defining Steps Toward Feminine Magnetism
And here's the breakdown of each week:
Week 1: Understanding Yourself and Clearing Your Mental/Emotional Blocks. This week we will solely explore the nature of thoughts and emotions and how they can become your greatest ally or your greatest stumbling block. How your fear, resentment, anger, feeling
unworthy, worries, limiting beliefs, preconceived-notions, expectations and hard-dying habits prevent you from owing and unleashing your personal power and being okay with what is and not needing anything to be a certain way. This week meditation is on mindfulness, going with the flow, allowing love to manifest in your life and becoming the creator of your reality.
Week 2: Understanding And Healing Your Childhood Wounds.
All our relationship issues stem from your unhealed wounds and we all relive the relationship we had with our parents/first care givers (especially parent of the opposite sex). This week's past life regression hypnosis will take you down the memory lane and uncover all your childhood wounds/traumas and heal them. It's a powerful session, be prepared to gain a deep insight into yourself: your fear, insecurities, prejudice, anger,
dysfunctional habits in relating with men like the first cycle's participants did.
Week 3: Healing Anger and Cultivating A Compassionate Heart. A lot of us deal with buried anger and resentment issues. Anger is poison to your emotional and physical health and all your relationships. Our new ways of thinking or seeing things will help us deal with this. It's also fear of getting hurt that causes us to lock up and erect barriers. You might not get hurt that way, yet you also block the flow of love in your life. This is how you get trapped in a rut and can't get out. This week meditation is on anger and its antidote (compassion).
Week 4: Shadow Work. A lot
of us are governed and in fact enslaved by the unconscious part of ourselves. We are often triggered and aren't aware of the whys and tend to project who we are on other people. For example if we tend to see others as controlling, it's because deep down we are controlling ourselves. We are denying that part of ourselves. Thus, we aren't integrated. It is an important part of inner work if one is going to be emotionally free at all.
Week 5: Letting Go Of All Those Things That Hold You Back. A lot of us can't let go hanging onto the things we thought we lost or the things that hold us back so much, be it lost love, lost opportunities, anger, baggage, painful memories or loved ones. We think in the "could've, would've, should've" mode that doesn't help us move on. It's a complete illusion that doesn't bring you peace. This week we will crush this
predisposition once and for all. The meditation will make you see that you can't lose the things you never had in the first place.
Week 6: Unity Consciousness. After my awakening I see why people suffer: the acute sense of separation, the belief in the existence of the self that needs all the extra work to maintain and preserve. This is the bottom line why we all identify with our ego or
representation of self that is built on lies, beliefs, inferences and mere stories told by others and/or ourselves. This is an important subject to explore in depth if one is going to get rid of the shackle that keeps one in their repeated patterns of suffering.
Week 7: Metamorphosis to Feminine Goddess and Celebrating the new you! This week is focusing on creating a new you: the
one radiating positivity, joy and attracting more abundance in every aspect of your life. You've been a caterpilar and struggling all your life and this is the time you break out of your cocoon and become the most luminous beautiful butterfly. You will love the Metamorphosis Guided Meditation that I created. This week is all about how you can lean back into your feminine power. Feeling it with every sense of your being that leaning back works WONDER and it makes you see
your inherent worth as a woman. This week we will explore ways to tame your anxiety that is the biggest obstacle in why women find leaning back so challenging. Relishing being in a new, more empowered state of mind and a higher energetic frequency that attracts more of the same in a feedback loop. This is the state of flow that makes you simply unstoppable. You have created the momentum and you will keep going. This week is also about how you can make sure that you
don't go back to the same unproductive old habits. And how being a soft, secure, high-value woman is the KEY SOLUTION to all your relationship problems. The guided meditation and Goddess Affirmations will help you go through this process.
When you sign up this month you'll get $100 off ($399). The price will be $499 in January. This is much cheaper and works much faster than traditional therapy. So hurry! Turn your life
around, romantically or otherwise.
The Journey Inward: The First Defining Steps Toward Feminine Magnetism
Love,
Katarina
PS: Oh last button least, I'd like to introduce something called Obsession Phrases. If you have invested in my teaching you might want to check it out:
Obsession Phrases
