Then I found Kat. I sent her an email which probably would have taken hours to read. Obsessing over every detail of our
conversations, his actions etc. She advised to me to just read the book. I decided to give it a chance. I started applying the book's tips immediately. I must say, without even doing it to the T, it worked. And I almost thought someone was playing a joke on me. How accurately it worked, I'm still amazed.
Anyway, fast forward 5 months (and I know many will think it's a bit too soon) and I have a ring. It happened on Valentine's day. We were having a couple photoshoot for Valentine's and he just got down on one knee. I will get photos from the photographer in a few days. We have discussed getting engaged but I didn't think it would be so soon.
I'm still in shock. But it feels right. I don't feel strange. All I am is happy. I do almost feel like it's added pressure on me to keep things balanced and good, the way they have been. But I know if I overthink it, it will do nothing but damage. On the positive side... I am so
happy. I never thought this wild one could be tamed. And I am so happy to say, he has such a soft heart. Not the guy I thought he was at all."
I remember her super long email most of which I skipped and told her instead how
anxious and over-analytical she came across and it exhausted me already, so she can only imagine how he must feel (I don't hold back and I speak the truth and that is why my success rate is mighty high for those who are ready with confronting their blind spot).
And the third was Valerie, "I got engaged!! Yay, I can't stop being supper excited... I have learned so much from you ladies on here and still have room to grow! I am very excited it happened... After 5 years of wishy washy proposals and signals from him, I
finally feel content!
On Valentine's Day I had his present, a few small things in a gift bag... and he says, I thought you said no Valentine's Day gifts... I immediately felt sad like did he really not get me anything! I can get super scared about spending a lot of money, I did say don't spend money I would rather have a house of our own, because we are past due... 5 year relationship here... So, I was coming to terms with not receiving a gift... hours go by... then I come around the corner and a bag was on the bed.... I screamed!!! Of excitement!!! he laughs and says you haven't even opened it yet... I still get chills... he didn't even put it on I
did, now that I look back he probably though I was crazy, lol. I eventually calmed down and said YES.
After a year we started to have problems with control in
our relationship. I wanted control he wanted control... we started to get off and on more... I became a full time student and he thought that meant I had it easy and he left the whole relationship up to me to maintain. That only worked for like a week then I ended things. Here is where we got dysfunctional! Bad bad habits started to form from the both of us. I struggled with leaving the relationship alone completely... we were that couple was passionately in love and fueling fire.
I have had a best friend Dasha for almost 8 years now and I would turn to her for support/feedback/sounding board... She would give me advice from what she learned from Kat and what worked well for her. In August 2014, I started to learn how to lean back and gather my thoughts and control my self instead of controlling the relationship."
Her friend Dasha (or Diana on the blog post I
wrote) will be featured this Saturday on the Feminine Goddess Monthly Membership. So sign up if you want to listen to her story.
So what is the secret of melting a man's heart that has given birth to 15 engagements so far?
Women don't get the commitment they want from their guys because they're more
interested in the goal than the relationship itself they forgot to nourish it. This is why what I teach works like a charm because I demolish that very mindset so completely. Nourish your relationship, commitment is just a matter of when, not if.
If you don't get the commitment you want, it's because you're not doing the Feminine Magnetism way that I teach. And if you want to study it, here's the last chance to get my hit programs at a deep discount.
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Love,
Katarina