How To End The Cycle Of Toxicity In Your Relationship

Published: Wed, 10/28/15

   
How To End The Cycle Of Toxicity In Your Relationship
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Hi ,

Here's what Tasha shared in the group recently:

"When I found Katarina Phang and came to this group I was a complete mess. My drinking  and anxiety were out of control and I was very reactive.

My EUM who brought me here pretty much dumped me, because of my aggressive, masculine, desperate, reactive, and needy ways.

I thought I could never get him back, I went from blowing up his phone, text harassing, everything, you name it!  He had blocked me from everything: social networking sites, phone and ALL.

I tried to hold on too tight and pushed him away. I'd seen him with other women, but following Kat's advice I didn't react, even though I was dying inside. It was close to 6 months of not having contact. I would see him here and there, but it was like he was quick to get away from me, until I finally decided to do something different.  

I stayed in this group, looked at posts from other women, started working on my anxiety, gaining more patience, reading Kat's book, blog posts, and following Kat's advice.

Well it turned around, my energy changed, yes I still have some anxiety, but I control it better.

He contacted me about a month ago, we started talking, and seeing each other.  Everything feels different now: he's calling more, his tone is different, he seems happy when he speaks to me, and guess what? He's been throwing out the " I love you" word and he said I'm more chill and laid back.

He smiles at me now, hugs me and gives me kisses. It all turned around after I let him go, I knew I loved him, I wanted him happy, I knew I had to let go because I wasn't making him happy being toxic and pushy, I wasn't making myself happy, chasing after him.

Ladies, if I can go from bat shit crazy, drama queen, toxic, to  being calmer and non reactive, you can too!  If my situation turned around, yours can too!

I realized I was my own enemy.  Men are not meant to be assholes.  Work on you. It's true, once you change your ways, he will change how he reacts to you.

Be soft, lean back, have patience, mirror him, let him lead, be calm, non reactive, sweet and lure with honey. Kat knows how to speak a man's language, she understands men.

You can turn your life around, you can become a goddess, believe in yourself and do the work.

It feels good to lean back and have a man pursue you, that's how it's supposed to be if you allow it.  If I can change, you can too. Listen to Kat ladies, she is truly the "Man Whisperer"

Katarina, you are an angel and truly the best, Hugs." 

Tasha found me in February and joined the group in April, totally depressed and desperate to have her guy back. She was a mess. Anyone who had seen her and read her stories would have thought it was OVER. She was the epitome of everything men were scared off and she did everything I taught against.

She was toxic and thus she brought that toxicity in her relationship.  He dumped her, any guy would.

She stayed and even signed up for my monthly membership. She worked through her impulses so diligently and committedly. Truly the group and the monthly membership were her best therapeutic venues.

Once she felt better and totally leaned back slowly but surely her EUM began to resurface but nothing happened for months and she stuck to my advice.

Now he can't keep himself from gushing on how much he loves and adores her. Tasha is one of my biggest success stories that gives hope to everyone of you out there. It's never too late.

My teaching will change everything, not only your love life but also every aspect of your life because it doesn't only make you a better woman/partner but also a human being.

So tomorrow at 6 pm EST as a part of the monthly membership I'll talk about what is toxic relationship and how to end the cycle of toxicity in your relationship and how a man responds to your toxic energy and behaviors with his own.  The same man will respond differently to an emotionally grounded goddess like in the example of Tasha above.  

You will hear from my partner Joe how he responds to me so differently to the way he responded to his ball-busting ex.  Whether a man is a Prince Charming or a frog, it pretty much depends on whether you are a ball buster or a feminine Goddess.

If you are in a codependency this class will give you the powerful inspiration on how to end it.  In the last Goddess Interview with Mary: From Broken Up To Engaged, she revealed how my ebook (that she read about 100 times) and teaching has helped her to end the cycle of codependency between her and her now fiancé.  

They now never fight and when asked about how she sticks to her boundaries, she responded kinda in an "obvious" way -or perhaps oblivious to the average women: I have no boundary.

It's not that she has no boundaries.  They don't come to mind cause their relationship is so easy and functional.  The sign of a healthy relationship is there is not much thinking involved there on how to strategize.  

You can get her fascinating interview here.

Now back to the class tomorrow, if Tasha and Mary can do it, anyone can.  You have the power in you to end the cycle of toxicity in your relationship.  Once you change, I promise the world will succumb and drop at your knees.  Once you conquer yourself, you conquer the world.

So what are you waiting for?  Sign up here:

Feminine Goddess Enlightened Relationship Monthly Membership


You can cancel anytime and you will also get a special rate for all previous enlightening classes in the monthly membership.  My classes will shift you instantaneously.

And if you have just broken up with your man, you won't want to miss the interview with Anabelle who just got back with her ex after 10 months of breakup.  That will be a part of your 2 classes this period.

See you in the call and you can get my coaching LIVE!

Love,
Katarina


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