Hi ,

First of all, thank you for all the emails you sent me.  As much as I enjoy reading your stories and want to respond to each one of them and give advice to your situations, I just can't anymore.  But...if you post them on one of my blog posts, I will do my best to read them and give you FREE advice like I used to.

Seriously though, you can't lose investing in my ebook.  With only $67 or $47 you get to work closely with me, the World's Top Expert in Feminine Magnetism.  With both packages you'll get my 2-week email coaching and quite possibly a new brain!  So what are you waiting for?  So many women benefit and get their EUM to claim them or even propose just from reading my ebook alone:

He's Really That Into You, He's Just Not Ready

Now, , I feel like a broken record at times.  One thing so many of you resist about my method is rotation.  It is important and without it you will relapse.  You'll go back to your old pissed self cause you feel neglected/rejected.  

Here's what my client Jennifer said recently about rotation after resisting me for so long:  "Update : A turn of the tide? 

So... I made two dates, one for this Saturday and one for next Saturday ... and a few more things are in the hopper.

Enter - EUM.  He wrote me yesterday how he was playing hockey (he was off) I said "Have fun, I am going to happy hour and a run later...." He said something "funny" like running drunk might work. I didn't reply.  At 11pm he sent me a text - I didn't see it - getting more relaxed already! 

He wrote again at 11:20 "What is going on with you, you are acting weird, is everything OK?" I ignored and said "oh hey, how was hockey" .... he said "fine, I sense something, what's up" I said nothing is up. 

He said "can I come over?"  I said "Honestly, I am really tired and have stuff at work to do tomorrow I just want to go to bed." 

He said - "Well Ok but I am not off for 5 days now."   Hmmm - maybe he should "schedule me then" right? 

I said "oh how is your gramma (she took a fall)" he said "I don't understand why I can't come over. I don't just want sex, I miss you" ..... So, I will again be one of Kat's converts ... you can't fake the energy shift of a rotation and he's feeling it instantly. 

Now we will see! Thank you Katarina Phang and so many others for taking my posts, giving me advice, sending me messages and just being supportive. I hope this is a turn of the tide IN MYSELF.  Love you all. Happy Friday."

And she further updated:  "Had the most wonderful date tonight. I got my hair done, nails done, bought a nice dress. Non couch dates are fun!!! He was kind, attentive, such a gentleman, I didn't want the date to end! Totally helped that he looked like Bradley cooper too  :).

I feel free. Free from the EUM pain that held me down. I still feel afraid, in unchartered waters - for EUM land was safe but painful - -and I haven't got time for the pain anymore!! :)"

Then again: "Second date with my Saturday night lobster guy set for Thursday. He's coming into NYC - to my job - to pick me up and take me to Central Park and dinner! First date with single dad a town over on Saturday night. Rotation in swing. EUM is quiet. He was asking questions/ suspicious/ had some kind of radar last week and now he is silent.

Trying to stay focused on me. Running tonight to prepare for my 5k (on my goals list) and dreaming about walking in Central Park with a guy who is into me and called me last night to nail down a date - his words.

Also Lobster guy is already talking about next weekend as I am busy this weekend. Nice. Why do I think about EUM then? Ladies who have been through this - will those thoughts become less and less as I focus elsewhere?"

And just today: "A Rotation; verb : Something you have to do for yourself. It will transform your life, how you feel about yourself. At times it can be fun, at times it can be healing. But it's necessary.For those of you who just can't, take it from Nike. JUST DO IT.

I believe I am being courted and I LIKE IT!

Now I get it. I see what you mean. It's like getting a slap across the face when you are pining. I have an EA guy making an EFFORT. He's planning when he's going to see me next. He's coming to me. He told me he's listening to what I am saying - what I like and planning our next date around that - so that he can make me smile. He told me "I will keep making you smile for as long as you allow me to" THAT IS AWESOME. I just need to not get too far ahead and enjoy myself above all else."

Do you feel a shift in her energy?

Exactly.

And energy is everything.  That is what is going to attract your EUM, not your sourpuss attitude and nagging/leaning forward.  If your ways haven't worked, change them.  That's what sane people do, okay?

Are you sane?  If not, then no guy wants to commit to a woman like that and you can't blame them.

So you who are stubborn, give it a try.  Stop the ifs and buts, I don't want to hear it.

If you have time to obsess and try to fix your EUM, you have plenty of time to rotate his butt so he can pursue you like a man pursuing his prize.  He can't pursue you cause you're always in his face -and on his case- cause you have no other options!

And if he never takes you out, it's probably why.  Two weekends ago in the monthly membership group coaching we addressed in depth how to deal with this situation, other than rotation.  You can now get the over 2-hour recording here (class #8).  If you're tired of couch dates and feel like a booty call while knowing that your EUM has a means to take you out on a date, then you have to listen to the call. 

And tomorrow at 3 PM EST my client Gina, who is expecting her first baby the end of the month (which will be MY first baby as well), will be featured.  You can read her story here.  Is your biological clock ticking?  Then you don't want to miss this call.  Learn from her how she managed her EUM (EAM now for sure) to get on board with her plan to parent a child together, something she had planned to do alone had he refused.  

That's a huge commitment!  

And last but not least, the 12th and 13th engagement news just got in the last 2 days.  This is insane, I can't keep up and I don't know what to say LOL.  To know what make these men can't wait to marry these ladies, sign up for this ongoing program:

Four Components Of Melting His Heart

We are on class #2 this Sunday on appreciation.  In this class you will learn how to encourage good behaviors that get you more good behaviors and how to overcome your displeasure of things that bother you by shifting your perspective, and thus energy. You get to hear from some of the engaged ladies on week 5 how they pulled it off. Plans are available.

Four Components Of Melting His Heart

Love,

Katarina